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i really do need prayer to save my marriage. I'm going threw a divorce right now and it hurt very much. This is the first time we have not been together. She says she wants to be happy but i use to make her happy all the time. I really hope that there is some way to save it. I need prayer really bad. I love my wife for better or worst. everything is going to fast its like she is rushing it to fast. please pray to save my marriage

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Dear Lavoiser, I pray for all people going through marriage crises every night. So be assured you are included. I too am going through issues and at the point of filing separation. Not know all the particulars of your marriage I won't say to much but if you use to make her happy all the time have you tried asking her what has changed to make her unhappy so you can have a chance to make amends. Open and honest communication is a must to try to make a marriage heal. Good luck and God Bless.


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Tell your story.
Do you have your own lawyer?

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No i haven't asked her what makes her happy. We only talk sometimes on e-mail. this has really been hard for me for the past month. thank you for your prayers. My god bless you. My heart tells me not to give up and i have faith that we will be back together but it hurts at the same time. I want her to see the good man that i am. I love her alot and my to step kids with all off my heart

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To your question no i do not have a lawyer. It was a Sunday when she told me that its not there anymore. It really hurt me. It was time where i had to stay at my friends house to save gas and go to work. Because work was just right by my friends house. She told me i could. Maybe she missed me a lot and didn't tell me at all. she has never told me the reason. She always would say its not you its me. I'm not happy anymore and i said i always though i made you happy. I told her that i would do anything to save our marriage. I wrote her e-mails and tell her how i feel from my soul and the bottom of my heart. It could also be that we had a lot of bills to pay and that stressed her out. I don't won't a divorce i know there is still something there. I pray everyday that my marriage can be saved. If we saved our marriage i know it would be for the better and be a lot happier than before.

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You've got my prayers going out for you man. It seems like we're in the same exact boat. I dont know whats going on to much either but keep hangin on its rough but I cant let go either. Hope everything works out Sometimes I think its a losing battle but just keep taken an a** whippen trying to save it. pray pray pray


If you feel that you're not being loved as you should / Ask yourself are you loving as much as you could

My answer is NO

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