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quick recap my husband had an affair last year. We have had NC since march. Things have been going well. I have access to H online email. He knows that. Yesterday I was going through it and I found a note to himself from last year with her email pw. I doubt he remembers its still there.
Would you use it? Any consequences about using it?
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Log into her email and snoop around. If you find nothing, great. If you find something - well, at least you know.
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Is it considered hacking if she gets caught?
ETA:
txbrokenheart,
Hopefully someone who knows will jump in here, but I think it is hacking if you go into her email.
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Last edited by lifeschoice; 10/03/08 08:35 AM.
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discard it asnd do not use it. It is a crime and should be treated as such.
You have no right to do this.
You are in NC and working on recovery. YOUR actions could cause that to end.
D not use it.
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discard it asnd do not use it. It is a crime and should be treated as such.
You have no right to do this.
You are in NC and working on recovery. YOUR actions could cause that to end.
D not use it. ITA.
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Thanks for the advice! I don't want to get into a legal mess over it.
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