Ok I looked on Acronyms whats PEA LOL. Sorry so new at forums.

In the first two stages of love, the chemical phenylethylamine also appears in the brain. Phenylethylamine is the "love drug" in chocolate. It helps maintain the euphoric high of falling in love. If partners break up, phenylethylamine levels plummet, causing depression and woe.

After two to five years, phenylethylamine leaves the body naturally. It's replaced by other, more stable chemicals.

DOPED UP

Helen Fisher, a research professor of anthropology at Rutgers University , is among many scientists who believe the flush of a new love is enhanced by natural stimulants in the brain, dopamine and norepinphrine. She explains that high levels of these natural chemicals can make people lose their appetites and their desire for sleep, just by thinking about their new infatuations. 'These are basic traits commonly associated with romantic love and with these natural stimulants,' she says. 'What else could explain the way you constantly think about a person, about the way you want to read them your bad poetry?'

Further studies show that gushy romantic sensations may be similar to the highs drug addicts feel when they're under the influence. Nora Volkow; the associate director for life sciences at Brookhaven National Laboratory in New York , has analysed the behaviours of drug addicts and people in love and found striking parallels. 'When a person is passionately in love, it is extremely exciting and provocative, and if the loved one is not there, distressing,' says Volkow. 'When I see my drug addicted patients, it just clicks with me how similar the addiction is. 'The fact that drug addiction and passionate love may trigger the same responses, signals to Volkow that drug addiction is especially dangerous since it taps into a natural sensation.

Realllly I want to see or read her/his thread. Maybe there is something I can learn from it. Show me a link somebuddiezzzz

He will run so hot and cold it will make your head spin. Whatever you do, DON'T gauge the impact of your actions by his responses. DON'T give what he says much weight at all. Just keep your Plan A close and stick to it. It is making an impression on him, even if he doesn't show that or even realize it himself yet.

This is going so well! Trust me on this.

Hey you guys, I wanna ask ya this. So i've read so many books on this topic. A lot of them say to stop saying I love you and all the reasons why you shouldn't which makes a lot of sense.

Also if you think your H is possibly a high functioning alcoholic would you write a no alcohol clause? I don't want to be his parent but think the alcohol may have played a part in it. He told me on discovery day that the reason he drank was to kill the guilt and the more the drank the less he felt for me and the more he felt for her.

I have become increasingly of the opinion that my
Online gambling
Pornography
Lack of application to xxxxxxxxxxxxx jobs
"Mistreatment" of you
Drinking alone
Excesive spending
And on and on the list goes
Have all been (in part at least) symptoms of a less than brilliant relationship/friendship. Hey I'm not trying to say I'm perfect, if I was I would have seen this ages ago.