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My wife already posts here and is getting a lot of help. I would prefer to keep her privacy on this site but I desperately need to get in contact with a man through e-mail to help me through this! Wife betrayed me last Winter and everything is over with OM. We are working very hard at putting our marriage back on track but I find this is the most difficult part. I am in desperate need for love and affection while my wife wants me to be "independent". Everything is fine as long as I act like "James Bond" and give all the attention to her needs. But whenever my needs come to front she withdraws, which aggravates my feelings of rejection. When I feel like this, I can no longer act strong and independent. This is a downard spiral and I can't take it any more! I need help, I need advice, I need someone to help me.
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Simon, <BR>It appears the profile is not listing e-mail adresses. You can reach me at danespurgeon@hotmail.com.<P><BR>------------------<BR>7Habits (Dane)<BR>"The significant problems we face cannot be solved at the same level of thinking we were at when we created them." Einstein.<BR><p>[This message has been edited by 7Habits (edited October 17, 1999).]
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Simon -- I'll talk to you anytime you like. You can E-Mail me at MB_Empty_Shell@hotmail.com <P>God Bless
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Simon,<P>If you think I can help you..I have posted two threads on this page......you are welcome to mail me at cossie@writeme.com<P>There is a light at the end of the tunnel...<BR>and time is on your side...<P>cossie
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Simon,<BR>I feel your pain. My W is giving me the cold treatment also. I don't get hugs or I love you's. It is tearing me a part. This is her 8th affair in six years. My email is regilmor@swbell.net.<P>------------------<BR>God Bless,<BR>Rob<P><BR>
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RRINKES@YAHOO.COM <p>[This message has been edited by covenant (edited October 18, 1999).]
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Simon - The dynamic you describe is familiar to me. If you will provide your email here or in your profile I would like to help, but I am not a man.<BR> Simone
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Simon -- okay, I have to know....<BR>Are you my husband!? (disguised)<BR>Please answer honestly with a yes or no.<BR> Simone
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Thank you all for these replies. I will get in touch with you later this evening. I really appreciate your help.<P>To Simone: No, I am not your husband. My wife is right beside me and we are having a good laugh! Sorry to have scared you!
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Simon - I guess I am truly paranoid...but the dynamic you describe and the words you use hit too close to home...and yes, I thought your name was just too cute.<P>I'm glad I could give you and your wife a good chuckle!!<BR> Simone
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Simone,<P>I would prefer that you give me your e-mail address.
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I would like to see some of the responses to the post as my w (who betrayed) is also treating me the same way. I feel as though I am giving and giving with nothing in return, not even a simple hug.<P>------------------<BR>tanker0076<BR>
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