Ignore her rants. Do not let her push you out of the house.

Wants her cake and eat it also. Wants everything willing to give up nothing.

She told me I would have to pay nothing on the house no more but when the house sells I still get half . So what do you guys think, I will be saving a s--- load of money.But I cannot have no key to the house no more or no entry to the house .

Playing you for a fool.

You leave the house it's considered abandonment, she is still occupying the property, then refuses to leave or sell, then she brings in the OM to bang her in your bed.

Why do you think you have been advised to not leave until the house is sold?

Why do you think WW is acting out to convince you to move out?

We are divorced

WW can come after you for half the house bills, you still own half.

WW can cause all kinds of problems to stall or prevent the sale of the house. Leaving you twisting in the wind.

Divorced, simorced, you increase the chances of XW screwing you over if you move out.

Why can't your XW move out and still pay her half of the bills. If it's good for you it's good for her.

Divorced or not you want to still pay for the house, move out, let the OM move to bang your XW, on your dime?

Are you going to buy the OM condoms too?

Going to tell her to get her lawyer to draw up a paper stating Iam know longer paying for anything to do with the house ,but still getting half the the money made .As for the OM there is none now but if there is in the days to come its her life not mine .

That paper will be worthless because she will not be forced to sell it or buy you out by a specific date.

Well here is my update , Everything the same her calling asking where Iam at,asking why I go out all the time I told her why not Iam not sitting up in that room all the time. But last night I came home around 10 pm went up to my room then to the office to get on the PC well about 11pm she comes in telling me she does not feel well and sits on my lap ,Then I said lets go in my room and lay down for awhile she does for about 1 hour in that time I give a nice rub down no more she gets up and goes back to bed . Well around 5am she comes in my room and lays next to me we sleep till about 6am then that is when it started the sex she said I miss it bad it was like it used to be , So people I donot know what to think ...

What do you want? To preserve your money or get her back?

Iam just lost about this girl how can someone say this means nothing. Iam saying she never talks about get back together. I guess I just keep doing what Iam doing till I move out .

A little up date she keeps telling me to go out with this girl , but always hugs and kisses me and even comes in my room and lays with me .I will be getting my own place the frist of the year .Always if I leave the house and come back she ask did you go to her house . Do you think she knows with me moving out the end is near . I will say I got a nice lump of money from her 401 but dam the IRS is going to kill me .

People what am I missing here, Friday nite calls me asking what am I doing tonite I tell her going out , Then she says lets go out and have a few drinks I say ok , She comes home we go out have a good time talking she always talks about me moving out and how and how Iam going to forget about her. We come home and let me say it was a great nite , After we have a great deal of fun I go to my room and go to bed the next morning she comes in and guess what more fun . Saturday afternoon comes she calls me and ask what are you doing tonite I said gong out again lets do something so we go out for dinner come home watch tv and go to bed no sex that nite just a good nite out but no talk about getting back together just talk about what is going to happen when I move out.Today she goes shopping I put up the Christmas tree she comes home and thanks me for it then says lets go eat we go get food come home sit watch tv then call it a nite . So people what am I missing here now no talk about trying to get back just what is going to go on when I move .Should I stop doing things with her and play hard to get now . Is she CAKE EATING THERE IS NO OTHER MAN .

I think a lot of women like to have their ex stay in their lives after they've moved on; friendship, protection, safety, it just feels better.

I guess what you do depends on what you want. What do you want, ultimately?

I would like to have my family back together , So should I not let her feel free to get with me when she wants to .She knows I talk to a lady she got my cell and checked my texts yesterday .I told her she would have to be the one to say lets try this because I have been trying for months.

I think if you truly want her back, you will let human nature do your work for you. Get your own life. Go on dates. Change things up. Get fit. Start hobbies. Make new friends. Volunteer for the holidays.

Let her see you getting on with your life. If there is any hope for reconciliation, it will drive her crazy for you to not need her any more. If she doesn't bite, then she truly has moved on. And in the meantime, you have set up a great life for yourself.

Update over heard a phone call last night she is meeting a guy for lunch Thursday someone she does not know I donot not know if she is doing the dating service thing , Because acted like she did not know nothing about this guy . I donot like the way she was talking to him she was telling him I will meet you any place NOT GOOD ....... Very bad for a woman to do that not knowing the guy.....

What is she relly feeling ,She told me that she gets Emotional when I leave and she thinks Iam with someother girl but she should not because she SAID that she does not feel that way for me Know . Then why is she feeling this way ? She also told me that when women dont want someone they also dont want someone else to have them is this true.

True for some women.

She is cake eating. You are meeting some of her ENs by being there with her, so as long as you're there, she'll not be able to disengage from you. One way or another, you need to make a decision. Either leave and let her move on, or stay and ramp up your Plan A and fight for her. Cut out the limbo.

i had a hard enough time moving on and i got the house in my divorce!

how much equity do u have in the house? if it's not much, maybe you could just write it off and move on? anybody trying to buy? why don't you reduce the sale price like your ex suggested?

How do you deal with a cake eater . This one comes to my bed NO SEX NOW I JUST WANT TO BE FRIENDS . She wants to hang out with me just friends now . OK how do you deal with this...