Hopefully this can help you guys see why Xmas is so important to me.
Carp.....
You need to have your bubble burst right now....Christmas is going to SUCK....
no matter what you do.....
whether you expose today, Christmas Eve, or
even if you wait....
You will watch your WW and wonder....
wonder what her present means (if she gets you one)
wonder what she gave the OM (and that will include any "favors")
wonder what she is thinking
wonder if this will be your last Christmas as a family
NO MATTER WHAT YOU DO....it will SUCK....and when the presents are open, the dinner done, the family is gone...you will become ANGRY....very VERY VERY ANGRY...
because she is having an affair
because what SHE has done has caused this holiday to SUCK
because she is CHOOSING him...over you, the kids, the dog...EVERYTHING...
And when that happens you will LOVE BUST....big time...
But in truth, if you choose to delay your exposure, you will have to look in the mirror and be ANGRY with yourself...because you are delaying the MOST important tool in your arsanal....EXPOSURE....
Trust me on this....I was in your EXACT position this time last year. Only, I had already started exposure. So I could look at myself on Christmas evening knowing I was doing all that I could to fight for my family, so we would NEVER EVER go through a Christmas like that again....
And you know what???
This year is MUCH MUCH better...and it isn't even Christmas....YET....
So today, you cannot save Christmas this year BUT you can start doing what NEEDS to be done to save it next year...
not2fun