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Re: Unique situaton...please don't judge me.
keepitreal #2191378 01/11/09 06:50 PM
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Yeah...confiding in ANYBODY of the opposite sex, in ways that you don't with your spouse IS AN EMOTIONAL AFFAIR.

Last edited by broken_soul; 01/11/09 06:50 PM.
Me(bw/fww) 39
recovering with amazing fwh/bh 36
DS 7
DS 4

His
EA Oct '07 - 7/2/08 (d-day)
NC 7/4/08

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EA/RA 6/'09-3/'10
NC 3/17/10
Re: Unique situaton...please don't judge me.
Resilient #2191387 01/11/09 07:10 PM
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f_w:

I thought you were here to get help with your marriage. I thought you were saying you realized how bad swinging was for your marriage. I thought you might be making progress.

Think about this:

  • AA does not allow alcoholics to have sponsors of the opposite sex. It is too easy for vulnerable people to become inappropriately involved with someone of the opposite sex.
  • This message board has disabled the PM feature. If people struggling with alcohol need to avoid getting too close to members of the opposite sex, how much more so people struggling with infidelity?
  • This is an anonymous board. You don't know WHO may come here, see someone with the screen name "fabulous_woman" writing about threesomes and being sexually curious and adventurous, and decide to contact you.
  • This is an anonymous board. What could you possibly need to say to a member of the opposite sex that you couldn't say in front of us?


You are playing with fire and you must know it by now. Be honest with yourself at least.

Also, I'm once again reminded of that awesome song "The Snake" by Al Wilson, sung by Johnny Rivers:

"Hah, shut up, silly woman,"
Said that reptile, with a grin
"You knew darned well I was a snake,
Before you took me in."

Don't be shocked when you get snakebit.

me - 47 tired
H - 39 cool
married 2001
DS 8a think
DS 8b :crosseyedcrazy:
(Why is DS7b now a blockhead???)
(Ack! Now he's not even a blockhead, just a word! That's no fun!)
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