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Hi SL, The courts are holding things up. We have a scheduling conference January 9th. Will you be required to be present, SL? Hopefully, then, you will have some answers or clearer 'financial' indicators that will be helpful to you. Sorry to hear about your greyhound, hope he's doing OK. Things are really tough financially. That's probably my biggest stress. I keep telling myself that it's temporary. Yep...same here. I am 'managing' but certainly out of 'comfort zone', and yet, this is the time I am learning how to appreciate and be grateful the most for what I DO have. Life is strange sometimes.
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...bumping it up for SL's convenience.
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Luna,
Good idea! We ARE due for an update from you, dear! What's happening?
Weekend plans?
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Maybe she's going snake huntin in the desert?
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Maybe she's going snake huntin in the desert? You would be close--you sly dog, you... Seriously folks. I had my Scheduling conference today, and we only have ONE date. April 6,2009. This will be the last day that I am married and the first day that I am newly single. It's an end and a beginning, all in one fell swoop. I gave myself about 5 minutes to mourn as I was driving to work and then got on with my happy day. All is well. I've got better things to do now than to cry over all of this anymore. The sadness was a natural response, so I had it and moved on. It's Friday, the sun is shining brightly, I'm having Pulled Pork (I'm sure BC is DYING to say something here) Sandwich for lunch, and I've got hot tub time with the kid this evening. I'm swamped. All is well, in SL land...
Me-BS-38 Married 1997; son, 8yo Divorced April 2009
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Good to hear! The Amazing, wowwing, SL!!! Making the most of every day, the best way that she can!
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Miss Lucidity and DS You are one amazing lady, my lucid friend. Fox
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I WAS CLOSE!!
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Great to talk to you the other night BC. The home hockey team won and scored 6 goals. For a few minutes after a home goal the beer stations sell the Bud Light for $1.50. Good thing the restroom is on the way.
Silent, if you ever come to Denver we'll go to Smokies. Best BBQ pulled pork in town.
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This one's for BC ...I'M FULL of PULLED PORK! Silent, if you ever come to Denver we'll go to Smokies Is that an invitation???
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Anytime. Coordinate with BC. He might be coming back in the spring.
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Anytime. Coordinate with BC. He might be coming back in the spring. Could this be the ground floor of an Amigofest?
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That would be awesome! i've always wanted to visit and I was SOOOO jealous of BC's trip the first time! Of course, since I couldn't come I have to donate for the cause! Beer Money! i'm positive it was spent well! I saw the evidence!
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...I'M FULL of PULLED PORK! I thought you were a Whopper virgin?
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I thought you were a Whopper virgin? If your talkin' 'bout Burger King, then NO, but if you are eluding to some other adolescent boy humor thingy, you'll have to fill me in, 'cuz I can always use a good laugh...
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Happy New Year SL, How's life?
BS 52, FWH 53, Married 1-1-84 D-day 5-14-07, WH moved in with OW Plan A 9 months, DARK Plan B 3-17-08 until 3-2-09 WH and OW broke up 1-09 Started over 7-09
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You know what, Queenie? It's lookin' up! Finally.
I KNEW there was light at the end of this tunnel, I just didn't know WHEN I was finally gonna begin to see it. I'm there.
DS is doing well, which is always good. I'm planning new things in my life, looking forward to a lot of change (and dreading it, too--even GOOD change is stressful). I dunno, I'm happy.
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You've done a complete turnaround SL. Wow. I think when you are finally done, it just seems to come out of nowhere and smack you. I'm happy that you are doing so well....
BS - me 56 XWH - 57
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6-3-07 - Dday#2 Found out NC never took place and A never ended. Found MB NC promised again, but WH would not write NC letter.
9/07 - Dday #3. Still lying and sneaking around. Plan B implemented WH wants nothing to do with me
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SL, I haven't been more pleased than when I read these 5 words in your post,,,,, DS is doing well I'm happy. As Eph would say, that is MAH-VE-LOUS!! Have a great weekend! Oh, and keep me in the loop on what a "Whopper Virgin" is and the potential Amigo Fest!
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