NC letters are to be written and signed by the WH. With the BW allowed to edit and have WH make appropriate changes before it gets sent.
"I sent her a NC letter about a month ago. I read it to him and he was like WOW THAT WAS SOOOO GOOD!"
If the NC letter appeared as it came from you it is not worth the paper it was written on.
If even though the NC letter was written by you, but it appears that it came from your WH then no harm.
Either way at this point the WH and OW have been in NC. So at this point it's best to let sleeping dogs and NC letters lie.
That's what I was thinking too. It just bothered me that he did not have the guts to tell her, I DON'T LOVE YOU! He has told me he never loved her...however he thought they had some sort of connection. The OW on the other hand was completely whipped! I think he fed off of that. Other wise, he wouldn't be at home with me. Telling me that he does not want her. Also that he does not love me.
The NC letter/ email went a little something like this ( from my memory)
(you know who this is!)
I know all about you and him, I read every single message. All I have to say is wow, that is LOW!
He and I are not leaving each other...so don't get your hopes up because, it's NEVER GOING TO HAPPEN! He loves me and I love him as well. So why keep doing this to yourself? You don't really love him either, you love his ***edit*** and you love his music. You can't base a relationship on sex and music. That is very very childish! YYYYY has a SEVERE mental disorder(s) beyond your comprehension. You have NO IDEA what you are getting yourself into!
All you ever were to him was ****edit**** and an ego boost! Besides that he hates everything else about you. You are an attention wh0r3, you have no manners, you speak badly about him behind his back( yes a certain someone told him exactly what you said about us), you flaunt yourself around people and you are a liar!
It's time for you to move on now and find yourself a NEW man....preferably one that is single! He is with me and he will continue to be every night and day for the rest of his life!
(I don't remember the rest)
She said this to me,
Oh this AGAIN! I am already over this! I already know you guys are never going to leave each other. I already told him this should have ended in October. At the time this all bothered me, still does. But im over it.
Also, don't hold yourself up on a pedestal because you are all he has ever known. I wont tell you what he says about you!
As far as me being a ***edit*** goes, it's as simple as this...I like sex... Just like everyone else. But if it's good, then WHY NOT? But It happened, and i'm sorry...but it's too late now to take it back.
(that was her admiting to me that she slept with my husband behind my back)
(second message from her)
BTW it seems like you get off on having power over him...checking his phone and his email...what a partnership.
My FINAL SHORT MESSAGE TO HER!
You like sex, that is great in fact... it's wonderful..but with married men????? Now that is something else entirely! One day when your married, you will know what I am talking about. Don't you forget about karma honey!!
As far as YYYYY goes, he had ample opportunity before he met me, to date other females. He was just waiting for the right one, but given the reality I live in. HE obviously found the right woman!
Then you came along and we turned your rag doll ***edit*** into OUR PARTY!!! But let's just face it...you didn't have enough of an impact on him, otherwise he would be with you!!
BTW...I don't get off on controlling YYYYY I just dont trust him as far as I can throw him!!!!
Have a nice life!
BTW! I don't expect a response to the second email.