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Dancing_Machine #2208694 02/08/09 03:14 PM
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Okay, I either dreamed about it or woke up thinking about it, not sure which.

I think Shiny must be thinking what I'm thinking about the whole termination deal.

I didn't think to ask him about it last night, though.

Was it pre-planned?

Well, let's see...

They are sitting on over 20 g's from the bonuses, plus the IRS check he never gave me half of, and probably the other one, too.

He has access to all of her credit cards. As far as insurance? Well, he will only have to wait a couple of months or so, depending on when the judge resets the trial if he chooses to do so...otherwise they can tie the knot in April and she will put him on her insurance.

So how is he hurting?

He's NOT!!

And would he go that far...as to set himself up to get fired?

YES.

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Could you email me the link to his blog too?

-removed-

I'll delete it when you send me the link. smile Post here to say so, because that's not my main email.

EDIT: There were a couple of blogs on different boards I was looking at so if Gray does not have a blog, sorry. >.o


One year becomes two, two years becomes five, five becomes ten and before you know it, you've wasted your whole life on a problem you can't solve. That's one way to spend your life. -rwinger

I will not spend my life this way.
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Got it!

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LMAO!!

DIL just told me that Gray called there last night. Sounded drunk off his [censored].

Yeah, probably was drunk. And stoned out of his gourd.

I asked her if he had a different story about the termination. She didn't ask because she doesn't care, LOL!

Since he did for the blog, you KNOW he will for the kids. I'm just waiting for me to get worked into the scenario somehow, LMAO!!


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After seeing what Gray posted about alimony, I concur that he got fired on purpose.

Shame on you for trying to get alimony from an unemployed man!

rotflmao


One year becomes two, two years becomes five, five becomes ten and before you know it, you've wasted your whole life on a problem you can't solve. That's one way to spend your life. -rwinger

I will not spend my life this way.
karmasrose #2208710 02/08/09 03:48 PM
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Originally Posted by karmasrose
After seeing what Gray posted about alimony, I concur that he got fired on purpose.

Shame on you for trying to get alimony from an unemployed man!

rotflmao

Yes! SHAME on ME!! I am SO EVIL!!!

MUHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAA!!!!!

rotflmao

Yeah, you gotta remember, I am responsible for: WWI, WWII, The Crimean War, The Korean War, global warming, the gas shortage of the 1970's, The Vietnam War, 911, Jonestown, Waco, the sinking of the Titanic, the recession, Houston traffic, plagues of locusts, his flat tire, his flat manhood, etc. etc. ad nauseum!!!

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Okay, I just found a way to annoy the hell out of Gray and Slag. I'm still packing up his personal items. Now I am packing them in boxes that Shiny & PL-L saved for me. They have Shiny's name and office address on them.

rotflmao rotflmao rotflmao

Yeah, I know. Why didn't I think of that before? DUH!!

Well, I used a lot of them to pack up items for donation.

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Originally Posted by Dancing_Machine
Yeah, you gotta remember, I am responsible for: WWI, WWII, The Crimean War, The Korean War, global warming, the gas shortage of the 1970's, The Vietnam War, 911, Jonestown, Waco, the sinking of the Titanic, the recession, Houston traffic, plagues of locusts, his flat tire, his flat manhood, etc. etc. ad nauseum!!!

I knew you wuz behind Hurricane Ike, you devil! skeptical


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MelodyLane #2208766 02/08/09 05:26 PM
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Originally Posted by MelodyLane
Originally Posted by Dancing_Machine
Yeah, you gotta remember, I am responsible for: WWI, WWII, The Crimean War, The Korean War, global warming, the gas shortage of the 1970's, The Vietnam War, 911, Jonestown, Waco, the sinking of the Titanic, the recession, Houston traffic, plagues of locusts, his flat tire, his flat manhood, etc. etc. ad nauseum!!!

I knew you wuz behind Hurricane Ike, you devil! skeptical

Oops! Forgot that one!! LOL!

Yeah, better put on that Rolling Stones tune:

"Pleased to meet you....hope you guessed mah name!!! But what's puzzlin' you...is just the...nature of mah game!!"

rotflmao

Dancing_Machine #2208770 02/08/09 05:46 PM
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charlotte,
can you email me the links please? i feel left out laugh

email in sigline


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lildoggie #2208835 02/08/09 07:55 PM
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Done and DONE!

wink

kiss

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Hi DM, trying to find time to read through your sitch. I think my H will be on the unemployment line sooner than later.

Also ask Shiny about Atty for the county I live in. Got papers this morning and have to respond. I found out that H's atty had 3x been charged with professional misconduct. Figures H's atty is sleazy also since it is also OW's atty. I need someone that I can have complete faith with.


Me 55, XWH 53, M 22 years
D17, D30
alien replaces my husband "I'm not happy" -7/08
Discover OW-8/08 (his direct report and I work there also)
H moves out 10/1/08, confront Ow 10/28/08
Plan B 1/09
D final 12/09

Quote: "First thing you do is pray; when there is nothing else to do, continue to pray."
hope3343 #2209731 02/09/09 07:19 PM
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Think about it this way.

You have Shiny, who is Han Solo. hurray

And Gray has the 3x loser who is Greedo. puke


One year becomes two, two years becomes five, five becomes ten and before you know it, you've wasted your whole life on a problem you can't solve. That's one way to spend your life. -rwinger

I will not spend my life this way.
Dancing_Machine #2209738 02/09/09 07:28 PM
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Originally Posted by Dancing_Machine
Done and DONE!

wink

kiss

:MrEEk:

o. m. g


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Hi Charlotte,

Just wanted to let you know I am praying for your success tomorrow in court.

Best wishes to you! smile

Love in Christ,
Miss M


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Dancing_Machine #2209859 02/09/09 11:03 PM
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Just opened your link and see you are in court tomorrow. My prayers are with you and let us know how you do.

Started reading your sitch up to page 50, you have come a long way. Good luck - God speed.


Me 55, XWH 53, M 22 years
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Discover OW-8/08 (his direct report and I work there also)
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Plan B 1/09
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Quote: "First thing you do is pray; when there is nothing else to do, continue to pray."
hope3343 #2209885 02/09/09 11:54 PM
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I want a friggin Play by play!!!!

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Originally Posted by hope3343
Hi DM, trying to find time to read through your sitch. I think my H will be on the unemployment line sooner than later.

Also ask Shiny about Atty for the county I live in. Got papers this morning and have to respond. I found out that H's atty had 3x been charged with professional misconduct. Figures H's atty is sleazy also since it is also OW's atty. I need someone that I can have complete faith with.

I sure will ask him! In the a.m.!

Dang!! 3x!! That's wild!!

Shiny called while I was still in class, around 10. I called back when I got out.

Boy, was he P*SSED!! He had been reading Gray's blog and needed some radio translations. YOWZA!!

I wish he wouldn't have been so busy and been able to read it earlier in the day...he might not be able to sleep now!

I am going to have to keep an eye on him now. In case he goes after Gray in other ways to pummel him into Gray Rancid Butter! Not that I care about that part...I just don't want Shiny to go to jail!!

YES, he is THAT worked up about it!! And it takes a LOT to get him into that state, normally he's really easygoing and sweet. Wait! Make that: SWEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEET!!!

He ordered me to get some rest so I can't stay up messing around much longer.

But this is really cool!! My favorite Chef called me out in front of the class today to tell everyone to read my journals as an example because I am such a good writer!!

blush blush blush OMG!!

That's not all!! Later on break, Chef asked me if he could have copies of my journals to put in his personal career portfolio!!!

faint faint faint

He said that I am really funny...didn't I hear him laughing over there?

I said, no, I was probably washing dishes and not close by!!

LOL!!

I thought that was WAY COOL!!

Can't wait to tell Shiny!!

Yeah, that's IT!! Gotta get started on that novel!!








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Originally Posted by karmasrose
Think about it this way.

You have Shiny, who is Han Solo. hurray

And Gray has the 3x loser who is Greedo. puke

rotflmao

I LOVE it!! Yes, Shiny would definitely make a SMASHING Han Solo!!

Swashbuckling space pirate, yep!! His hair's about getting there as well, LOL!!


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