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#2208654 02/08/09 01:27 PM
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This was well over a year ago. I met this woman on a dating site and she asked me out. There were 2 pictures of her and she looked decent so I agreed. I was out at a bar downtown with my cousin. She called my cell phone and at first I mistook her for a male friend of mine. I was drunk by now though and let it go. She said they wouldnt let her in the bar we were at and I remember there was a commotion at the door. So now she wants me to come to one of the worst bars in erie in a rotten area. Again the red flag went off and I ignored it.

My cousin will not leave to meet the girl friend so I go alone because I said I would. Through cell phone communication she directs me to the back of the bar to where she is at. She tells me she is the one all in blue. As our eyes meet I feel a slight touch of fear for a second. Then I take a quick glance towards the door I came in but her arms are wide open snd she is closing the distance already. I feel my heart sink as her arms wrap around me. Over her shoulder I see 3 mexican guys smirk at me. As her toungue goes down my throat I am still trying to piece together how this is happening to me. Her pictures were not bad but the girl giving me a bear hug is 4 times larger.

We sit down and they want me to call my cousin for her friend. I jump at the chance thinking I can say I am going to pick him up and leave. However she grabbed my phone and asked him herself to come down. This scared my cousin off and sealed my fate. So I slam shots. Her friend is cool and even polite. But the one in blue just gropes me at will and keeps telling me she knows I want her. After her telling me to but her many drinks she informs me I am taking her out to breakfast and her friend is going. Again I have hope because when she gets in her friends car I can just drive home and forget this evening. As soon as I got the hope of leaving though I felt a large hand grab my crotch and she said , " I'm riding with you." and looked me in the eyes. So I'm trying to drive to the restaurant while being groped. She tells me she is sleeping over my house tonight. I let out a fake laugh. However she made a mistake. "Take me to the store and give me $5.00 for cigarettes". Just like that no exageration. I give her my lady seducing smile. One she hasnt seen all night. I hand her the money.

I was going to drive away anyway but when she recogized 2 colored fellows going in the store I heard one ask her to tell me to give them a ride down the block. I know what neighborhood I was in but before I could put it to drive another man comes to my window asking for money. Very shady. I give him 35 cents from my ashtray. He walks away but comes right back wanting more. Now I am getting mad because the girl might come out and I tell him no firmy. He leaves and I drive away and let out a huge sigh of relief. That woman chaged the way I screen dates and also did make me miss being married. Since then though been on a lot of dates just have found the right one yet.

She did call and leave a nasty message from the store. I heard people in the store laughing at her cause her date left her. Her friend was 3 blocks away with a cell phone so she was ok. Not that I cared after the night she put me through.


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steve,

do you live in erie pa?



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Unfortunatly I do. I see you live in Waren. Waren is a beautiful place. Have you ever been to erie?


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My dad and sister live in Erie. I'm there alot.


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I was drunk by now though and let it go.

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So I slam shots.


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Again I have hope because when she gets in her friends car I can just drive home and forget this evening.




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So I'm trying to drive to the restaurant while being groped. She tells me she is sleeping over my house tonight.


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I give her my lady seducing smile. One she hasnt seen all night. I hand her the money.

redflag redflag redflag redflag

SHE was the date from h*ll?!?!?! :RollieEyes:

You might want to look in the mirror there.

AllurinG,

You might want to avoid running into this guy. Sounds like a drunk driver playa.

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I think this had been posted by SA a while ago, maybe a year ago. I suspect someone is trolling.


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You are right Anne...I thought it sounded familiar also. Thanks for the warning C


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Dont even try it. I drink 2 times a month and I was drinking that night because I ended an 8 month relationship. If anyone will call me a drunk over that I would'nt want to date them anyway. My lifestyle is that of a bodybuilder. If I posted it a year ago and once again it is because I still feel abused and ashamed. It was the worst date I ever had. Since then have had nice dates but only because I screen them better.




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I was drunk by now though and let it go.

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So I slam shots.


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Again I have hope because when she gets in her friends car I can just drive home and forget this evening.




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So I'm trying to drive to the restaurant while being groped. She tells me she is sleeping over my house tonight.


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I give her my lady seducing smile. One she hasnt seen all night. I hand her the money.

redflag redflag redflag redflag

SHE was the date from h*ll?!?!?! :RollieEyes:

You might want to look in the mirror there.

AllurinG,

You might want to avoid running into this guy. Sounds like a drunk driver playa.

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