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lildoggie #2209919 02/10/09 12:53 AM
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Originally Posted by lildoggie
Originally Posted by Dancing_Machine
Done and DONE!

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:MrEEk:

o. m. g

Ain't it, though?

rotflmao

Miss M #2209921 02/10/09 12:55 AM
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Originally Posted by Miss M
Hi Charlotte,

Just wanted to let you know I am praying for your success tomorrow in court.

Best wishes to you! smile

Love in Christ,
Miss M

Thank you!!

kiss

hope3343 #2209922 02/10/09 12:56 AM
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Originally Posted by hope3343
Just opened your link and see you are in court tomorrow. My prayers are with you and let us know how you do.

Started reading your sitch up to page 50, you have come a long way. Good luck - God speed.

Thank you!!

kiss

SIHW #2209926 02/10/09 12:59 AM
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Originally Posted by SIHW
I want a friggin Play by play!!!!

Will do!!

As soon as I get back from class tomorrow night!!

Mom's waking up at 4 a.m. to go pick up XW.

I have to call OWH and make sure he is up when I get up.

I have to meet Shiny at 7 a.m. for the drive to court.

I wonder if I'll sleep at all? LOL!! I was sleepy in class and driving home. You think I am now? HAIL NO!!!

rotflmao

Dancing_Machine #2209947 02/10/09 01:47 AM
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I hope I can be that excited about my ATty!

Can you film it! You have come a long way. I have been reading your sitch. up to page 50 and counting


Me 55, XWH 53, M 22 years
D17, D30
alien replaces my husband "I'm not happy" -7/08
Discover OW-8/08 (his direct report and I work there also)
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Plan B 1/09
D final 12/09

Quote: "First thing you do is pray; when there is nothing else to do, continue to pray."
hope3343 #2209951 02/10/09 02:00 AM
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Originally Posted by hope3343
I hope I can be that excited about my ATty!

Can you film it! You have come a long way. I have been reading your sitch. up to page 50 and counting

Me too! Awwwwwww....Shiny is DA BOMB, Baby!!

I wish I could!! OWH wants to film it REALLY bad!! I don't know if he's really planning on smuggling in a camera, though. LOL!!

I'm definitely going to have to get the transcript!! Noooooooo boudadoubtit!!




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Prayers for you tomorrow, Char!!!

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(Why is DS7b now a blockhead???)
(Ack! Now he's not even a blockhead, just a word! That's no fun!)
Dancing_Machine #2209956 02/10/09 02:09 AM
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I just want to thank everyone for all of the love and support and positive energy. I am blessed beyond measure and I hope that I can pay it forward as much as possible before I kick the bucket.

You have all been so kind to a little stranger from the sticks who was emotionally raped by her WS.

I would not have made it without you all. And that has translated to the outside, too, with my family (including my stepchildren), Shiny and other people I have met since this whole thing began.

Gray has no chance against this kind of love...he can throw out all of the evil he wants...it will just turn to dust.

He also has no idea that there is this much love in the world. He does not like people. He shuts himself away from the world and I really shut myself away, too. I thought it was the right thing to do since we were married.

He will never know this kind of love because he is so hateful. Well, that will be his life, then. He'll just remain bitter and hateful until the day he dies. That is a shame but it does not affect me.

Thank you from the bottom all the way to the top of my heart and beyond!!!

I love you, All!!!

Charlotte

jayne241 #2209957 02/10/09 02:10 AM
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Originally Posted by jayne241
Prayers for you tomorrow, Char!!!

hug pray

Thank you, jayne!!!

kiss

Dancing_Machine #2209983 02/10/09 06:45 AM
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Gettin' ready to ROCK-N-ROLL!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

And...I just gotta say...

BADA BING, BADA BOOM, HE'S DONE!!

You doan messa witta da BIG ITALIAN, Baby!!

WOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO!!!!!!!!!!!

hurray hurray hurray

Dancing_Machine #2209985 02/10/09 06:52 AM
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Good Luck Charlotte! Rock 'em!


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DDay EA 4/05
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In recovery
MicheleG #2209986 02/10/09 06:54 AM
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Originally Posted by MicheleG
Good Luck Charlotte! Rock 'em!

Thank you, Michele!!!

kiss

Dancing_Machine #2210036 02/10/09 09:10 AM
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Oh Char!

I'm sitting right with you the whole day.

Yeah.

That's me you hear making fun of Gray's inane attempt at pathos, while Shiny hangs him up and beats him like a pinata.

What can I say?

My horns hold my halo in place.


I never had to take the Kobayashi Maru test until now. What do you think of my solution?

O'hana means family, and family means nobody gets left behind or forgotten.

My Story

Recovered!
Dancing_Machine #2210055 02/10/09 09:36 AM
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Charlotte,

I have no worries about you or your case today. You've already won... this is just icing on the cake.

We'll all be sitting here waiting..........

kiss


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“In a sense now, I am homeless. For the home, the place of refuge, solitude, love-where my husband lived-no longer exists.” Joyce Carolyn Oates, A Widow's Story
princessmeggy #2210153 02/10/09 11:05 AM
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-prepares helmet-

It's Palpatine. D: There's no I after the second P.

To make up for my corrections --

GO SHINY!!!! hurray


One year becomes two, two years becomes five, five becomes ten and before you know it, you've wasted your whole life on a problem you can't solve. That's one way to spend your life. -rwinger

I will not spend my life this way.
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Have been praying for you this morning.

Charlotte, isn't the love here amazing. I so wish I had had it while I was going through my separation and divorce.

You are a fabulous woman. Remember, when you walk in that courtroom, you walk in with the love and respect of a lot of people! Including XW and OWH. Mostly, though, you have cheerleaders and friends here - The MB brigade - Mighty Beautiful Brigade.

gray walks in with slag

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Charlotte, I am with you today! Picturing you exuding blinding goddessness in your Spectacular Red Suit!
I can hear Grey crying out from here, "my eyes, my eyes, it's gloriousness burns me so!!!" rotflmao rotflmao rotflmao

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"So take that look out of here, it doesn't fit you, because it's happened, doesn't mean you've been discarded." -- Big Country from "In a Big Country."
"Keep calm and carry on." -- Winston Churchill
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Anyone else waiting by the computer with baited breath?


I never had to take the Kobayashi Maru test until now. What do you think of my solution?

O'hana means family, and family means nobody gets left behind or forgotten.

My Story

Recovered!
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Anyone else waiting by the computer with baited breath?

Yep, and with tapping toes, crossed fingers and an eye tic.


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“In a sense now, I am homeless. For the home, the place of refuge, solitude, love-where my husband lived-no longer exists.” Joyce Carolyn Oates, A Widow's Story
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Anyone else waiting by the computer with baited breath?

Yep, and with tapping toes, crossed fingers and an eye tic.

I've been to the bathroom 109 times waitin' ...
sorry, TMI


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