Ok the other thread got locked, but I wanted to show EVIDENCE of what was said to me in the past about confrontation......I have EVIDENCE what Mel said to me specifically about confrontation...

On my first thread, on March 5, 2008, I was asked by then WH to go and meet COW and her H. Mimi, who had been with me from the beginning of my sitch, put a call out to Mel to help me. Mel, graciously offered her ADVICE, which, was

"If it were me I would not go, because with my Texan anger, I would end up in jail. BUT if you can control yourself and keep yourself in check, I would go and watch them interact...."

She also told me to abstain from alchol on this trip. So, while Mel did advocate for me to do a confrontation, she also adviced me not to go IF I COULD NOT KEEP MYSELF IN LINE.....

Of course, all that was moot, as the trip never did happen. And in fact, just a meer 12 days later, I got my confrontation.....and I walked away without one once of damage done to COW.....(but not lets talk about what I did to WH.... ).

not2fun

ps....I know Mel doesn't need me to stick up for her, BUT with all the talk of "EVIDENCE", I remembered her advice to me on confrontation.....

Please do not re-start arguments from locked threads.