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NOT BO, I meant BP!! I would have no idea of  her BO status dang edit function *mutter grumble*
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Haha! Well, I know her BO status.... She smells like possums!!! 
You have your way. I have my way. As for the right way, the correct way, and the only way, it does not exist. ~ Friedrich Nietzsche
The person who is always finding fault seldom finds anything else.
I pity the fool. - Mr. T
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and cats and rats and elephants.....
JK about the elephants.
They wouldnt fit on the bed.
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I also have confronted the OW..and like everyone else has mentioned here..DUMB! OMG!! I am a tall woman and very fit..this one is short, my age and overweight..my H always said he loved the shape I am in..go figure.
This woman he has obsessed over for 30+ years..she leaves her H and her kids to be with my H..
He has his true love back..WHATEVER!
He keeps telling me that he is not worth the effort of being loved..etc etc..
Well, if that is the case..then the OW really IS Dumb since he isn't worth it.
I was not the nicest to her but I too ended up just feeling sorry for how dense she really is.
At least I can hold MY head high, I have done nothing wrong.
Me 48 - he 49
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I was a woman possessed! I just feel like saying, to those who I met then;
"You met me at a very strange time in my life." (Fight Club) I know exactly what you mean. I can't wait until we move so I can have a fresh start at appearing normal again. I have blown all chances of that in this town!
Over it.
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It sounds like if the BW talks to the OW, it's all the same stuff...they are immature and spout stupidity; they all make excuses for what they have done, and when they try to verbalize that we just laugh at the absurdity of it all. They finally shut up because deep down they realize how dumb they sound.
Not only that, but most of us are shocked at what our H's chose...how unattractive they are and how dimwitted.
It's all in the script, there is nothing special or unusual about any of them...an OW is an OW is an OW. And for most of them, that is all they will EVER be; it's a character flaw.
Me,BW - 42; FWH-46 4 kids D-Day #s1 and 2~May 2006 D-Day #3~Feb.27, 2007 (we'd been in a FR) Plan B~ March 3 ~ April 6, 2007 In Recovery and things are improving every day. MB rocks. 
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P.S. I know this because OW emailed me when I did my big exposure on the message board where they met...I didn't have to call her a homewrecker, her "friends" on the board did that for me. Many of them sided with me and emailed me for months in support of me and our M. I also spoke to her on the phone when she repeatedly called FWH's cell phone and really p*ssed her off when I told her that just because she cannot get and keep a husband of her own, that doesn't make it ok to try to steal mine. She showed her true colors then when she freaked out and I held the phone out for H to hear...he was appalled, he hates screaming, cussing women. I just reverse-babbled her nonsense which was easy because it was all so laughably funny. She didn't have a leg to stand on and that was obvious.
Me,BW - 42; FWH-46 4 kids D-Day #s1 and 2~May 2006 D-Day #3~Feb.27, 2007 (we'd been in a FR) Plan B~ March 3 ~ April 6, 2007 In Recovery and things are improving every day. MB rocks.
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P.P.S I am still very proud of how well I stayed in control throughout all of that...that is key if the BW ever has C with the OW, especially when you get into recovery...then the FWH can see who the true gem is and be ever-so-thankful for a W who acted respectfully and he can be PROUD of and ADMIRE for the grace she displayed in the face of the gnarliest crisis anyone can endure.
No OW will ever be able to compare to that...there is nothing admirable about a woman who drops her pants for a married man. Who can respect that???
Me,BW - 42; FWH-46 4 kids D-Day #s1 and 2~May 2006 D-Day #3~Feb.27, 2007 (we'd been in a FR) Plan B~ March 3 ~ April 6, 2007 In Recovery and things are improving every day. MB rocks.
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