Please God open my wife's heart back to me, our children and upon Yourself. Please show her the light back home; Please give her the strength, courage and wisdom to take the necessary steps back home to our marriage; Please restore her faith back into You and lift her soul; Please raise the fog that surrounds her a little each day; Please show my wife that I have forgiven and still love her very much and want her home; Please show her we can have a great future together; Please show her, I admire her outgoing, volunteering, caring, loving, beautiful & big hearted person; Please assist my wife in making better choices; Please advise her how to forgive herself and me; Please show her I’ve became a better man; Please continue working with me to bring out my confidence; Please give me the strength and patience needed to wait for her love again; Please give me what I need to save my marriage; Please give me strength to control my anger, envy and jealousy; Please help me love my wife unconditionally; Please accept my forgiveness to my wife, OM and myself; Please create circumstances that dramatically slow down any plans my wife has to live a life without me. I am willing to go through continual personal pain and growth from these difficult circumstances to help myself and if they will alter her wrong course. Please guide OM back to his ex-wife, children and to You; Jesus, please work on healing and restoration of marriages around the world ; Please give prodigals the strength to take steps back home; Please give standers the patience to wait with open arms for their loved one; Please God touch the hearts of these souls who may not be as soft as needed: Thank You for all Your blessings each and every day! Amen

ppenton,

Praying for you and her, but you also need a plan if you want to save your marriage.

If you're in the Chicago area and need someone local to vent to, drop me an email.

I'm in the SW 'burbs myself...

Mark

ppenton,
I affirm and agree with your prayer....

My counselor prayed with my and during the prayer he prayed for my WW to be in pain... that she feel the loss of her familly and faith....and I add that to my prayer for your wife...

As you cope with the disaster that you are in the middle of know that you are not alone ..... This is a great web site and you can develop a plan for recovery from it ...

I hope you have had a chance to read Surviving an Affair... It has been my Bible in my effort to get thru my disaster.....If you want to seek some advise I would post on general questions II

HANG IN THERE !!!!!!!!!