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Hi Verve, G-d has given me a very special gift for just today and for that I am so grateful.
I want to walk in his path because it's my path to healing completely.
I do have your cell phone and if I get the opportunity you betcha I will call. How long is hubby gone for? We could talk tomorrow if I don't get the kids to leave me alone.
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Hi Queenie,
Yes, Lil is a compassionate person, she has been very supportive and informative. Along with Mark, and Zen and several others.
It sounds like you had a full day that ended with a soft touch.
That's all that matters right now, that a light has shined your way. Prayers are powerful!
I look forward to getting to know you as well!
Peace and Love
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He's gone just overnight. Up to his father's an hour away to work on the car and it got late. His father needs company since the divorce so it's good when H can visit. He'll be back tomorrow afternoon. I'm just catching up on MB and watching TV. My life is a-many-a-wonderous thing. 
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Hi Queenie, ...just dropping by to say Hi and offer you my support...in walking your journey, and thank you for sharing it with us...and do agree that.... It's just the pain wave coming in, reminding us we are hurting and then going back out. We are so truly much stronger than before. Remember, these used to last DAYS and we went so MUCH farther DOWN....  QUEENIE
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Hi Luna, How are you? Where have you been? I sure miss you LUNA Q
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Hi Sunshine, Lil, she is one of the most important people in my life. I'll have to read up on your thread.
Thank you for stopping by.
No, being broke isn't fun, but I would say at least I have a job and my bills just will get paid though late. There are a lot more people hurting than me so I consider myself lucky and all good things come in G-ds time.
I hope to get to know you Sunshine..... And tell Lil... I love her. Queenie, You are very special to me and always will be. And Queenie... I love you too
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Hi Lil,
How are ya girl? Keeping warm?
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Wow Queenie!!!! The ice is thawing... God is awesome... Tread slow and steady... do what's best for Queenie. How long has it been since he left? And how long have you been in Plan B now? Amazing. Just amazing.
Love ya...
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Hi PM,
Isn't G-d awesome. I'm totally treading slowly, light and easy. In fact, I'm not doing anything but seeking G-d for his guidance.
He left over 22 months ago, May 14, 07. I have been in Plan B since March 17, 08.
I thank you so much for your support. Lova ya too
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So...you're WH puts you through HE11 for the last what 4yrs??? Has stopped making payments to you, runs off with a crack ho. She dumps him and you meet him and are suddenly his best friend? And all this while you're in Plan B? Queenie I have 1 word and a letter for you PLAN D!
What message does this send to you're children? Let a scum bag walk all over you and then reward him at the end. TWISTED!
Honestly, I think you're bordering on a lost cause. You seriously need to gain some self-esteem and self respect. If you can't do it for yourself then do it for you're kids
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Hi Queenie (JT waving from the tulip fields) I left you a voice mail. BTW- about this: Honestly, I think you're bordering on a lost cause. You seriously need to gain some self-esteem and self respect. Since we are friends IRL and I know the journey you've been on-how your faith has grown and how much you have changed, I totally disagree with this assessment of you. JMHO
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So...you're WH puts you through HE11 for the last what 4yrs??? Has stopped making payments to you, runs off with a crack ho. She dumps him and you meet him and are suddenly his best friend? And all this while you're in Plan B? Queenie I have 1 word and a letter for you PLAN D!
What message does this send to you're children? Let a scum bag walk all over you and then reward him at the end. TWISTED!
Honestly, I think you're bordering on a lost cause. You seriously need to gain some self-esteem and self respect. If you can't do it for yourself then do it for you're kids MFIL, uh your math is a little off. This is 2009. He left in MAY 2007. It's been LESS than TWO years. I don't understand your thinking. What Queenies' husband has done is what MOST waywards do. They ALL are horrible. What GREATER message does it send to her children if he DOES come to his senses, restores his family and becomes the man that God intended? Just because you chose the divorce route, doesn't mean it's right for everyone. Sorry, you're dead wrong about Queenie.
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I presume you meant 2007. But her WH has been in an A since 2006
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I presume you meant 2007. But her WH has been in an A since 2006 And your point is? 2006 would still make it less than the FOUR YEARS you claimed. But so what?
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Again I ask:
What GREATER message does it send to her children if he DOES come to his senses, restores his family and becomes the man that God intended?
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Why are you so fast to assume what kind of man God intended him to be?
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That's easy. There is no assuming. It's in black and white. His WORD clearly states his intentions for a husband and the kind of man he should be.
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Queenie's WH has done all but murder one of her loved ones. But I guess that would be ok too just as long as he was sorry. I mean ya....she would be an absolute monster if she couldn't forgive him and restore her family. I mean thats all that matters isn't it? Excuse me while I 
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That's easy. There is no assuming. It's in black and white. His WORD clearly states his intentions for a husband and the kind of man he should be. Thats where you are SO wrong. God gives us all free will and its up to the individual what CHOICES he or she makes.
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Queenie's WH has done all but murder one of her loved ones. But I guess that would be ok too just as long as he was sorry. I mean ya....she would be an absolute monster if she couldn't forgive him and restore her family. I mean thats all that matters isn't it? Excuse me while I I feel sorry for you Vladie.
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