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Congratulations! That is wonderful news. If anyone persisted and tried, it was you. Now you can take all this wonderful MB stuff you've learned into your new relationship with AZ man. He has no idea how lucky he is.


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hurray I'm thrilled to hear this SL. It's been a big dark cloud, that infidelity business - I'm glad you've got to the edge to find the silver lining.

You are a wonderful and strong lady and deserve to live a good, healthy life.

Oh - and you can get to AZ via I94 and I90, too. It's only 31 hours from you to me, then you only have to go south a little ways. grin

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Oh - and you can get to AZ via I94 and I90, too.


Be sure to stop at Wall Drug and see the Corn Palace in Mitchell!


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All those hills and mountains are gonna tear up your transmission. It'd be better to take the downhill route. Less wear and tear, better gas mileage, not to mention about 15min from I-10 in Lafayette there would probably be a big pot of boiled crawfish and an ice chest of beer.

I'm just sayin wink


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cry That's not fair, BC!!!!

I could match the ice chest of beer, raise you a white water raft trip and a whole lotta girl talk!

You can always replace a transmission. MrRollieEyes

Well worth the 31 hours over and 16 hours down, I think. clap

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While our Cajun is thinking..... think

I have a question for you. Feel free to not answer if it isn't something you care to think about.

Is the Z still with the same girl he was with at the end of the M? If I remember correctly, the answer is no, that there have been others afterward. But just wanted to clarify.

I think I would be on better speaking terms with WxH if Babs wasn't in the picture. If he was someone else, I think I could lay some of the past to rest. At this point, I still want to kick her teeth in.

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I could match the ice chest of beer,


I live a few minutes from DAVECO , THE LARGEST LIQUOR STORE ON EARTH!

Ask SD. He's been there.


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I think I would be on better speaking terms with WxH if Babs wasn't in the picture.

Althought I admit I would feel pretty good if Gollum should ever wake up and take a real good look at Wayzilla, and gleefully throw himself into the fires of Mount Doom rather than stay with her.......I will still never speak to her again.

But I'm not bitter.



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I live a few minutes from DAVECO , THE LARGEST LIQUOR STORE ON EARTH!

Ask SD. He's been there.

I'm sorry, sir, your references didn't pan out. GuySmiley is MIA. Musta got lost in Liquor Heaven?

If ya like that sorta thing......

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If he was someone else,

Well, that's a funny typo. Yup, if he was someone else, it would help alot. grin

I meant if he was WITH someone else.......

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Althought I admit I would feel pretty good if Gollum should ever wake up and take a real good look at Wayzilla, and gleefully throw himself into the fires of Mount Doom rather than stay with her.......

rotflmao

Maybe Gollum and Babs could join hands and become "soulmates" on the trip down.

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I will still never speak to her again.

But I'm not bitter.

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You are getting the best revenge - from all I hear, you are living a good life.

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KillerBees:

If I look at a map.....

An I-70 route works the best for S/L.

She can visit Bugs in the Show Me State, hit Chris in the Mile High state and drift down to AZ via the mountains.

I70 starts in Baltimore...

I guess that Bugs or Chris will have to throw the party. They are the centrally located ones...

Wild Thing in MT.
BC and Rin can come up from LA.
SDMan travels over from CA.
Others?

This brought to you by your local UPS man....Delivering packages whereever the address...

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This brought to you by your local UPS man....Delivering packages whereever the address...

Even Killer Bees.... smile


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Originally Posted by The Optimistic Cowgirl
You are getting the best revenge - from all I hear, you are living a good life.

Hey, I am all about living a good life but I still think the best revenge involve flesh eating nether region cooties, bulldozers, unemployment, severe depression and profound utter loneliness.

There is probably more but I don’t want to get greedy.

LG your plan is brilliant as long as I win. Daveco wouldn't know what hit em.


Originally Posted by Cowgirl
Maybe Gollum and Babs could join hands and become "soulmates" on the trip down.


Monkey LUUUUUV!!!!

She would love him. He's a western wear mogul now. He likes da skinny girls! Hmmmmmmmmmm..............


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y'all are having waaaaaay too much fun.

Foxy, the Z is not with the original sin, but he had so many, it didn't seem to matter anymore . HE was the issue, not the OW. I put the responsibility square on his shoulders. If he was still with OW#1, I'm sure I would be a bit more ired. As it stands, I just don't care anymore.

When I told him about moving, he said he was devastated. When I replied, I told him that I fought for him, me our son, our family. He replied that I fought longer than most, and that he was sorry the way things turned out. Still not a direct apology, but close. He's probably more sorry that things haven't turned out in his favor.


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Originally Posted by someone who has put alot of thought into this
Hey, I am all about living a good life but I still think the best revenge involve flesh eating nether region cooties, bulldozers, unemployment, severe depression and profound utter loneliness.

Um, yeah, there is that too.

rotflmao

Who knows, you might just get to see all tht happen!


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LG your plan is brilliant as long as I win. Daveco wouldn't know what hit em.

grumble Leave it to the UPS man to take the most DIRECT route. What is the fun in that?!

It's all good, though. CO is much like MT. I think I could handle it. grin

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When I told him about moving, he said he was devastated. When I replied, I told him that I fought for him, me our son, our family. He replied that I fought longer than most, and that he was sorry the way things turned out. Still not a direct apology, but close.

Just keep it here.... you might be right about the last part. But take what you can.

You DID fight more than most. I's proud of ya!

I hope AZ is ready for you!

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CO is much like MT.


Yeah, pretty much.

Except there are people and buildings here.

The bars stay open after sunset here.

You don't "have to" wear cowboy boots.

And we have DAVCO! THE LARGEST LIQUOR STORE ON THE PLANET!!!


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Except there are people and buildings here.

:crosseyedcrazy: <----- kinda people

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The bars stay open after sunset here.

That's where all the :crosseyedcrazy: people are.

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You don't "have to" wear cowboy boots.

Hey!!! I have not worn my cowboy boots since MONDAY, thank you very much!


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And we have DAVCO! THE LARGEST LIQUOR STORE ON THE PLANET!!!

Let it go, man, let it go!!! But before you do..... go find SDGuy.

CO is where all the yuppies go that get kicked out of MT for wearin' birkenstocks.

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Originally Posted by chrisner
And we have DAVCO! THE LARGEST LIQUOR STORE ON THE PLANET!!!


Apparently, there is DAVCO! THE LARGEST LIQUOR STORE ON THE PLANET!!!

Whoda thunk smirk


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Hey!!! I have not worn my cowboy boots since MONDAY, thank you very much!

Oh wait, I think it was TUESDAY - I wore MINE on Monday, DD15's on Tuesday. yeah, I think that was it.

I think it has been snowboots since then.

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Originally Posted by silentlucidity
Originally Posted by chrisner
And we have DAVCO! THE LARGEST LIQUOR STORE ON THE PLANET!!!


Apparently, there is DAVCO! THE LARGEST LIQUOR STORE ON THE PLANET!!!

Whoda thunk smirk

I think he's makin' that up. Trying to get BC out of lurkdom. I don't think there really IS one or he'd be repeating it over and over.

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The biggest FREE liquer store in the world is in my ice chest, which is next to the 80qt pot of boiled crawfish that SL is gonna be eating out of on her way to go smack her man on the AZ!

stickout stickout stickout

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and down here we kick our sh1t BAREFOOTED!!

wait....that didn't come out right crazy

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