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It wasn't me, it was google. I just searched. Thanks Lil.

Hi Please Help, how are you?

Shabbat Shalom y'all and everyone else have a spectacular weekend.


BS 52, FWH 53, Married 1-1-84
D-day 5-14-07, WH moved in with OW
Plan A 9 months, DARK Plan B 3-17-08 until 3-2-09
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You, too, Queenie. Have a great weekend. And perhaps do something to pamper you. I had a manicure today. Not something planned -- just a spur of the moment indulgence. And I'm happy I did. I'm really trying to embrace the "get a life" motto.

Sooo.....celebrate Queenie this weekend!!! And I'll celebrate Holyheart.


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Dday 12/07
5ish False Recoveries (all in 2008)
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He files 1/09; D final 12/2012
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I'm ready for a great pedicure, this weekend, ladies.

Anyone else up for it?

Where is Mimi to give us goddess advice? LOL


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Great idea Holy. I'll check it out and see if my budget will allow for it. If not, then I can just celebrate my daughter's birthday and know that was more important.

Yes, Verve, where is the woman when you need her for Goddess advice. I miss ya Mimi girl... so very much.


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Plan A 9 months, DARK Plan B 3-17-08 until 3-2-09
WH and OW broke up 1-09
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Shabbat Shalom, Queenie...

Or should I start calling you Miss (or Ms) Adventures?

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Good morning, Beautiful.

The sun is out! I hope Little Queenie has a fantastic birthday and you enjoy a FABULOUS day.

-L4


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Oops.... Went to bed right after the hug...
I'm fine Queenie...Thanks....

It's your Birthday? HAPPY BIRTHDAY!!!


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No sir Mark, I am still the Mrs...., and love Queenie. I read somewhere on here yesterday and have decided I won't be the one to end my marriage. I still have lots to learn about myself and there is NO NEED to jump to action. What plans do you have this weekend?

The sun is out and so will my body be later on this morning. Smartie Pants is coming for a visit next week so I am in cleaning mode.

L4, when are you leaving for Las Vegas?

Hi Please Help. It's my DD's 23rd birthday.


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Queenie,

It was supposed to be a pun... Miss Adventures = misadventures

My wife and I are going to our vacation cabin tonight when I get off work. I was there last weekend (Sunday night) but didn't get much done due to the rain and snow grumble we had. I have Monday off work (as of right now skeptical) and she is taking the day off so we can spend it together. hurray We both have someone taking care of our parts of the media stuff at church tomorrow so we are taking advantage of that to get away for a couple of days.

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Originally Posted by Mark1952
Queenie,

It was supposed to be a pun... Miss Adventures = misadventures
faint :crosseyedcrazy: rotflmao And here you thought I was up on the world. LOL

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My wife and I are going to our vacation cabin tonight when I get off work. I was there last weekend (Sunday night) but didn't get much done due to the rain and snow grumble we had. I have Monday off work (as of right now skeptical) and she is taking the day off so we can spend it together. hurray We both have someone taking care of our parts of the media stuff at church tomorrow so we are taking advantage of that to get away for a couple of days.
You deserve this break. Have a blast when you FINALLY get on your way. How's the weather looking for you?


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D-day 5-14-07, WH moved in with OW
Plan A 9 months, DARK Plan B 3-17-08 until 3-2-09
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How's the weather looking for you?
Yesterday was 70 with bright sunshine. cool Today it is 70 with high thin clouds. grin Tomorrow it is supposed to be 60s and raining grumble and Monday it is going to rain off and on with highs about 50 or so... rant2 Typical for a day off I guess...

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LOL..... why is that wise one?


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Checking in from Ohio with 74 and sunny. Mark, I believe you are close to me, so we tend to have similar weather patterns.

Queenie, I so wish that I could come with Smartie. Maybe you could call WH for me and ask if he will pay for my trip. Somehow, I don't believe that he would see the humor in that. faint

Anyway, I hope you two have a great time. Take pictures to send to me!!! And call me!!!



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XWH - 57

12/25/06 - Dday - WH promised NC. Plan A in effect. Thought we were in recovery.

6-3-07 - Dday#2 Found out NC never took place and A never ended. Found MB NC promised again, but WH would not write NC letter.

9/07 - Dday #3. Still lying and sneaking around. Plan B implemented
WH wants nothing to do with me

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Call him.... hmmm that does have it's appeal Chai....


BS 52, FWH 53, Married 1-1-84
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Plan A 9 months, DARK Plan B 3-17-08 until 3-2-09
WH and OW broke up 1-09
Started over 7-09
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Well, maybe we're on to something here. I'll call yours and you can call mine. We can let them have it with both barrels. I'd love to tell your WH what a scum sucking pig of a dog he is. Heck, I'd like to tell my own WH the same thing, but that would be LB'ing. Not the MB way. MB, however, says nothing about LB'ing someone else's WH now does it?


BS - me 56
XWH - 57

12/25/06 - Dday - WH promised NC. Plan A in effect. Thought we were in recovery.

6-3-07 - Dday#2 Found out NC never took place and A never ended. Found MB NC promised again, but WH would not write NC letter.

9/07 - Dday #3. Still lying and sneaking around. Plan B implemented
WH wants nothing to do with me

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Originally Posted by QueeniesAdventures
L4, when are you leaving for Las Vegas?
Ideally Tuesday afternoon. If I can't find a sitter for Tuesday night, I may not go. Still looking into the options.


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Hi Queenie,

If you get this tonight (Sunday), would you call me? Don't worry about the time - late is OK.

Thanks


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12/25/06 - Dday - WH promised NC. Plan A in effect. Thought we were in recovery.

6-3-07 - Dday#2 Found out NC never took place and A never ended. Found MB NC promised again, but WH would not write NC letter.

9/07 - Dday #3. Still lying and sneaking around. Plan B implemented
WH wants nothing to do with me

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Round of hugs for all you ladies!!! hug

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Cinder,

Where have you been?


BS - me 56
XWH - 57

12/25/06 - Dday - WH promised NC. Plan A in effect. Thought we were in recovery.

6-3-07 - Dday#2 Found out NC never took place and A never ended. Found MB NC promised again, but WH would not write NC letter.

9/07 - Dday #3. Still lying and sneaking around. Plan B implemented
WH wants nothing to do with me

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Let me get my phone and I'll give you a ring. You ok?


BS 52, FWH 53, Married 1-1-84
D-day 5-14-07, WH moved in with OW
Plan A 9 months, DARK Plan B 3-17-08 until 3-2-09
WH and OW broke up 1-09
Started over 7-09
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