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That figures. Everyone knows what bacon is made of. 
Widowed 11/10/12 after 35 years of marriage
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“In a sense now, I am homeless. For the home, the place of refuge, solitude, love-where my husband lived-no longer exists.” Joyce Carolyn Oates, A Widow's Story
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I'm going to never watch another movie or TV show starring anyone who has ever committed adultery.
BTW, anybody want to buy a TV? I don't need mine any more. Sardonic is totally lost on me, Pio. I am an engineer. There are a few crumbs left on the floor but the cat is taking care of them as I type so it is too late to ship them back to you. Irony though…I enjoy a good ironing as much as the next guy.
"Never forget that your pain means nothing to a WS." ~Mulan
"An ethical man knows it is wrong to cheat on his wife. A moral man will not actually do it." ~ Ducky
WS: They are who they are.
When an eel lunges out
And it bites off your snout
Thats a moray ~DS
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We will never know if PN admitted to himself that his divorce could of caused his son to kill himself. I had a cousin that killed himself when he was nineteen. His parents had divorced. After the divorce the kid was messed up.
Did his son's death cause PN to regret his actions?
If so PN could never undo the past.
So what should of PN done?
Many marriages should of not happened.
Did PN have his XW and family enjoy the material things that he, JW and their children enjoyed?
Did PN give his first set of kids the same amount of time and attention as the second set of kids?
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I'm going to never watch another movie or TV show starring anyone who has ever committed adultery.
BTW, anybody want to buy a TV? I don't need mine any more. Sardonic is totally lost on me, Pio. I am an engineer. There are a few crumbs left on the floor but the cat is taking care of them as I type so it is too late to ship them back to you. Irony though…I enjoy a good ironing as much as the next guy. Having lived in the desert for more than 10 years, I understand the futility of drawing a line in the sand.
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If PN was just an average joe, struggling to make his mortgage, I don't think we would care this much.
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Lines in the sand are so easy to draw, though. And they can look so pretty lying there. I say draw them all over the place as much as you want.
Drawing them with the muzzle of your assault rifle is usually productive.
"Never forget that your pain means nothing to a WS." ~Mulan
"An ethical man knows it is wrong to cheat on his wife. A moral man will not actually do it." ~ Ducky
WS: They are who they are.
When an eel lunges out
And it bites off your snout
Thats a moray ~DS
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If PN was just an average joe, struggling to make his mortgage, I don't think we would care this much. I agree, except when they live or work near me. Then I fumigate.
"Never forget that your pain means nothing to a WS." ~Mulan
"An ethical man knows it is wrong to cheat on his wife. A moral man will not actually do it." ~ Ducky
WS: They are who they are.
When an eel lunges out
And it bites off your snout
Thats a moray ~DS
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Ahhhhh That great Paragon of Virtue and Truth - "The National Enquirer"
Me: 56 (FBS) Wife: 55 (FWW)
D-Day August 2005
Married 11/1982 3 Sons 27,25,23
Empty Nesters.
Fully Recovered.
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