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Re: Coming apart at the seams (my wife wants out)
pomdbd3 #2116243 08/26/08 01:38 PM
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Kos,

You say that this "is all moving too fast for me", but you are diving into Plan D ? You said it your self "too fast."

"Rather than love, than money, than fame, give me truth"

Henry David Thoreau
Re: Coming apart at the seams (my wife wants out)
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BUMPING FOR KOS!!

Come on brother, talk to us!

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Re: Coming apart at the seams (my wife wants out)
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KOS-

Hope you're okay and check in with us soon.
Re: Coming apart at the seams (my wife wants out)
MelodyLane #2270554 11/06/09 03:02 PM
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Im in the same boat. My wife has asked for seperation and divorce. Is never moving to follow through on either. I feel like she is in the midst of an online emotional affair, maybe more. She never has unaccounted time in the real world but many hours a day she is chatting. She has a laptop that is wireless from our base computer. I dont have the login password to open it up. Is there any way to get it? Or monitor the keystrokes on it from the other computer? Im lost and feel I need evidense to present to her to move forward in our discussions. She claims they are her friends only. Yet all are males. What can I do. Help?????

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Re: Coming apart at the seams (my wife wants out)
fredwilma #2270555 11/06/09 03:04 PM
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Heres my thread for any that think can help with my story. Trying to save marriage and build trust

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Re: Coming apart at the seams (my wife wants out)
nugget #2270747 11/06/09 09:18 PM
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Originally Posted by nugget
With so much mystery and odd behavior on her part I suspect she is involved with another man. Generally if a wife is plain unhappy with how you have been treating her she will let you know. She will at least give you reasons for wanting to get a divorce. But, by her not wanting to tell you anything I think she is seeing someone. Why else would she stay mute and also why else would she want to stay in the same house with you. She wants her cake and to eat it to. She has you to take care of the kids and the other man to take care of her needs. These are just my initial thoughts from what you have posted.

100% agree with this. I want out of my marriage. I am not in an affair. I have given my husband list after list, email after email, begged and pleaded for him to go with me to the Harleys, outlined ways in which I think we would survive, etc. There should be NO doubt in his mind about all the ways in which I am unhappy.

If I were having an affair, I'd just want to cut bait and go...FAST!
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OurHouse #2271372 11/09/09 09:33 AM
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I saw your post after mine I didnt realize this original was a year old. I am in a sitution that Id love your opinion on. It seems you are where my wife was or is. Not even sure anymore.

fredwilma
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