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I have watched as you continuously brag how your RA was the best thing that ever was for you, how you "put your FWXW in her place."
Dude--what you did was as bad as what she did and it is nothing, nothing to be proud of.
Go ahead, mods, and lock this--Dude needs to be told by the umpteenth person that his RA was NOT something that anyone should ever do in response to finding out their spouse has had an A.
To the vets--I'm sorry for disturbing things. I just can't stand watching Dude do this any longer without saying something.
One year becomes two, two years becomes five, five becomes ten and before you know it, you've wasted your whole life on a problem you can't solve. That's one way to spend your life. -rwinger
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I have watched as you continuously brag how your RA was the best thing that ever was for you, how you "put your FWXW in her place."
Dude--what you did was as bad as what she did and it is nothing, nothing to be proud of.
Go ahead, mods, and lock this--Dude needs to be told by the umpteenth person that his RA was NOT something that anyone should ever do in response to finding out their spouse has had an A.
To the vets--I'm sorry for disturbing things. I just can't stand watching Dude do this any longer without saying something. WOW, you have anger issues. You've said this umpteenth times. I've said I don't condone an RA. I did it and my experience is insightful. I'll pray for you! DUDE
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How can you say you do not condone an RA when you have so extensively in the past bragged about it?
One year becomes two, two years becomes five, five becomes ten and before you know it, you've wasted your whole life on a problem you can't solve. That's one way to spend your life. -rwinger
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And yes, your experience is insightful...what NOT to do in response to an A.
One year becomes two, two years becomes five, five becomes ten and before you know it, you've wasted your whole life on a problem you can't solve. That's one way to spend your life. -rwinger
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How can you say you do not condone an RA when you have so extensively in the past bragged about it? I did brag about it initially, but now it disgust me. I wish I would have totally taken the high road and went STRAIGHT to plan D. WHen I say STRAIGHT, I MEAN that day, together, calling up our attorney and start hammering out an amblicable divorce. I'm totally sorry I did the RA thing. It hurt me more than anyone and it takes TIME to realize that..DUDE
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And yes, your experience is insightful...what NOT to do in response to an A. EXACTLY, and its insighful to all of us for the waywards on here to show to what NOT to do(THE AFFAIR ITSELF IN THE FIRST PLACE) Its all lessons learned. Maybe someone didn't have an RA because of my posts on here? IDK DUDE
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There goes another perfectly good box of TrollSnax�
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There goes another perfectly good box of TrollSnax� quido absurdum
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There goes another perfectly good box of TrollSnax� quido absurdum Did you mean.. credo quia absurdum est (I believe it because it is absurd)
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I have read one or two stories where both the WS and the BS feel thye benefitted from the BS's RA. So, at least for those folks, it may have been beneficial.
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There goes another perfectly good box of TrollSnax� quido absurdum Did you mean.. credo quia absurdum est (I believe it because it is absurd)Pretty close my friend..DUDE
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Or the old latin "Dudas lookus likeus ladyus".
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There goes another perfectly good box of TrollSnax� quido absurdum Did you mean.. credo quia absurdum est (I believe it because it is absurd)No it literally means something's missing. However, if he had used the proper wording, trying to feign eliteness, he would have used quidem, meaning indeed. Anyways, here's another scooby snack. Try again.
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No it literally means something's missing. Darmok and Jalad at Tanagra
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No it literally means something's missing. Darmok and Jalad at Tanagra I think that means, "Engage," Jean-Luc.
Preach the Gospel every day. When necessary, use words.
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I think that means, "Engage," Jean-Luc. Nope, it means "cooperation" Engage would be "Mirab, with sails unfurled"
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EXACTLY, and its insighful to all of us for the waywards on here to show to what NOT to do(THE AFFAIR ITSELF IN THE FIRST PLACE) Its all lessons learned. Maybe someone didn't have an RA because of my posts on here? IDK DUDE Dude, you do realize that you are just as wayward as any person who was engaged in an affair? Just because your wife did it first does not make you not a cheater. It always sounds to me as though you don't consider yourself a wayward, but you are- hopefully a FWH, but W nonetheless. T/J- Pariah, you are very funny. I have been here a long time and know what your WW did and I feel for you.
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T/J- Pariah, you are very funny. I have been here a long time and know what your WW did and I feel for you. I was retrofitted with a seeth to mirth transliterator.
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And I'm glad you were. Certainly better than still seething.
What is your signature from? I wonder every time I see it...
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Psalm 102:7
And the retrofit merely transliterates seething into jovial responses. The funnier they are the more malice intended.
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