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Me, BW
WH cheated in corporate workplace for many years. He moved out and filed in summer 2008.
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Well she had every right to. Is she the BW who was dying? If so, what fun she could have...just saying... 
One year becomes two, two years becomes five, five becomes ten and before you know it, you've wasted your whole life on a problem you can't solve. That's one way to spend your life. -rwinger
I will not spend my life this way.
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I can really relate to her situation.
Her husband is just disgusting. He lied and lied, and now it is turning out that he had sex with the slut in the marital bed while his kids were home.
And now he is so adamant that he is going to do the right thing by his daughter. It makes me want to puke. He didn't do the right thing by his wife of 35 years, didn't do the right thing for his kids.
Better that his wife go on without him. She might not have too many more years to live, but at least she doesn't have to put up with his [censored].
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Do right by his daughter? What about his wife? And other kids? And now he has this kid to worry about.
One year becomes two, two years becomes five, five becomes ten and before you know it, you've wasted your whole life on a problem you can't solve. That's one way to spend your life. -rwinger
I will not spend my life this way.
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Do the right thing by his daughter? Does that mean he is going to marry the skank-ho?
BS - me 56
XWH - 57
12/25/06 - Dday - WH promised NC. Plan A in effect. Thought we were in recovery.
6-3-07 - Dday#2 Found out NC never took place and A never ended. Found MB NC promised again, but WH would not write NC letter.
9/07 - Dday #3. Still lying and sneaking around. Plan B implemented
WH wants nothing to do with me
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Didn't he promise to marry the OW when his wife died anyway?
One year becomes two, two years becomes five, five becomes ten and before you know it, you've wasted your whole life on a problem you can't solve. That's one way to spend your life. -rwinger
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Ever hear Steven lynch? here is an excerpt from his song.
"If I could be a superhero"
If you could be a Superhero,
Would you be Justice Guy?
Making sure people get what they deserve,
Especially women who lie
Like if a wife left her husband with three kids and no job
To run off to f...ing Hawaii with some doctor named Bob
You could skin them and drain them of blood till they die
Especially Bob
Then you would be Justice Guy
Oh, I didn't mean to be subtle, I didn't mean to be vague
Give her Mad Cow disease, let him die of the plague
As long as they suffer for their terrible lie
Especially Bob
Then you would be Justice Guy.
Then you would be a Superhero, like me.
He gets pretty raw or I would put up a link cuz his facial expressions make it even funnier
And on topic John Edwards has to be one of the most worthless pieces of trash ever. He has reserved his special place in Hades
Me 56 Former BS Widowed 5-17-09 --married 25 years. 4 children DS-35 previous marriage--18-22 DGrandSons 6 and 4 Me former BS DD-29 with DGDs 5 and 1yr DSs 26 and 23 Teilhard de Chardin..“We are not human beings having a spiritual experience. We are spiritual beings having a human experience.” ...Sounds about right to me.
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I'll bet she decided to throw in the towel when it was leaked that there was a sex tape that would be referenced in the book his ex-aide wrote about him. Edwards is an idiot. I can't even stand to look at him.
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trashy, trashy, trashy... 
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People are just now finding this out? Maybe my "woman picker" is broken, but I had this guy pegged from Day One. Of course, I'm also one of the few who had problems with Bill Clinton starting with his comments about "astroturf in the back of the pickup truck."
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That he was screwing skankho while running for President on top of the fact that his wife is terminal and they have young children is just so very wrong my mind can't fully grasp it!
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Me, too, Fred. The guy made my skin crawl from day one. I run into a lot of guys like this. It amazes me that women do not see through them. Of course, who am I to talk. Bad picker here.
I wonder if the genders can see the slime in their own more clearly than the opposite gender.
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Me, too, Fred. The guy made my skin crawl from day one. I run into a lot of guys like this. It amazes me that women do not see through them. Of course, who am I to talk. Bad picker here.
I wonder if the genders can see the slime in their own more clearly than the opposite gender. Incidentally Zelmo, I want to thank you for putting me on track. Yesterday I had a grand "OMG Moment" (something akin to a grande mal seizure, perhaps?) when I came across this article. I think the author may have been living in my back pocket for the past few years... [/tj]
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Me:BW, FWH 1DD 1DS
Status: Chronicled in Dr. Suess's "The Zax"
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Never trusted Clinton either, Edwards gave off a slimey vibe in my book.
The other book that came out recently said Elizabeth was a difficult person, thank goodness I didn't have the media around me after d-day...difficult wouldn't have been the word used to describe me and the rollar coaster ride.
Me-49, WH-51
Married 02/1983 yrs, Sons - 27, 26, 20
1st PA - 1985, 1st known EA - 1992/1993
2nd PA - 06/02 to 11/04
1st D-day - 09/03, D-day 2 - 10/04 D-day 3 05/08
NC e-mail - 11/04- it wasn't real
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Me, too, Fred. The guy made my skin crawl from day one. I run into a lot of guys like this. It amazes me that women do not see through them. Of course, who am I to talk. Bad picker here.
I wonder if the genders can see the slime in their own more clearly than the opposite gender. Incidentally Zelmo, I want to thank you for putting me on track. Yesterday I had a grand "OMG Moment" (something akin to a grande mal seizure, perhaps?) when I came across this article. I think the author may have been living in my back pocket for the past few years... [/tj] Yes, you've found Schreiber, eh, Fred. She is very good.
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Apparently Jenny Sanford, wife of Governor "I'm hiking the Appalachian Trail" Sanford, is coming out with a book, too.
I hope they keep coming. Talk about exposure - maybe if people thought their Betrayed Spouses could no longer be pressured into shutting up and "taking the high road" and keeping the cheaters' dirty little secrets - maybe they'd think again about what they're doing.
Maybe.
Me, BW
WH cheated in corporate workplace for many years. He moved out and filed in summer 2008.
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We are forgetting the victim. Everything I have read about EE (pre and post A's) was that she was kind and giving.
I mean, she brought the girl an x mas gift (I think she knew)
In light of the "new" sex video -with a very preg other lady- and another claim of paternity, I think she just..gave..up. What a shame and a terrible way to end your life (years, I mean) and marraige.
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Him; H 46
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Dated/Married total 28 years.
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Saint Elizabeth and the Ego Monster A candidate whose aides were prepared to block him from becoming president. A wife whose virtuous image was a mirage. A mistress with a video camera.
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