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Hi all!

Some really good news! As you all know, my exWW has been supporting POSOM on MY child support for the last 18 months. About this time last year, POSOM and exWW moved to MD. A MB poster had a friend in MD CS enforcement but they couldn't do anything unless POSOM's ex pursued it as the case was in PA.

However, I got word from my contacts that the case was transfered to MD last month and POSOM has been served! I verified it with the Cecil County website and that is indeed the case! Hopefully he gets JAIL TIME!


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I have no idea what some of those abbreviations meant but hurray for any karma bus run downs on WS's and XWS's


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I forgot about the folks from overseas!

Translation:

Pennsylvania transferred Other Male's Child Support Case to Maryland!


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HA!!!

I love it when cheating scumbags have to eat the carp sandwiches after their actions have served them up to others....

Pour yourself a cocktail, smile some, and then watch the crazy Ex's world unravel over the next few weeks...


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This is a frequent happenstance in child support cases. A POS can run but not hide. If the POS has no job from which wages can be garnished, then failure to pay can result in jail in some States.

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Originally Posted by PSUBIKER
I forgot about the folks from overseas!

Translation:

Pennsylvania transferred Other Male's Child Support Case to Maryland!

rotflmao thank you laugh

Still happy about the karma bus


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rotflmao and tears of joy crybaby

Now this is an update!

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I hope my exWW thought was worth it to get a contempt charge for failure to support her kids while she was paying for POSOM and his horses to live with her for free.


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Originally Posted by PSUBIKER
I hope my exWW thought was worth it to get a contempt charge for failure to support her kids while she was paying for POSOM and his horses to live with her for free.

Someone call the whaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaambulance crybaby

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I still can't understand how your XWW could be this stupid.

You sound like a near-perfect guy. Horses! Hooray!

Why is it all the good guys get the cheating, mean, demented women?


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Originally Posted by karmasrose
I still can't understand how your XWW could be this stupid.

You sound like a near-perfect guy. Horses! Hooray!

Why is it all the good guys get the cheating, mean, demented women?

Thank you! I would say that I am far from perfect. Just a father trying to make the best of a bad situation and making progress towards personal recovery.

The Ex was the one that is into horses. In hindsight, she had tremendously poor boundaries with the horses and would become so absorbed in them that I often joked I was about number 9 in her priority list. I realize now there was a lot of truth to that.


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OH, how the wheels of justice grind so slow. rant2

Yet when caught between them the guilty get the grinding they deserve. MrRollieEyes

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hurray
Awesome news PSU!!!!

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Originally Posted by PSUBIKER
POSOM has been served! I verified it with the Cecil County website and that is indeed the case! Hopefully he gets JAIL TIME!
You do know this is ALL you fault don't you?

Why can't you just let them be happy and support them?
POSOM is a good father, but his wench of a greedy X-wife just keep wanting money for her kids. So you need to man up and support XWW and POSOM so they can be happy and you also need pay POSOM's child support too.
It is your fault they are coming after POSOM! rotflmao






I hope he gets jail time!
I really, really do!

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I'm giggling over this.

That's gonna be somethin when your XW asks for more money so she can bail POSOM out.

I can hear it now, "you just don't want ME to be happy".


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What could you do to help the POSOM's XW to be present in court, or her representative, testify in front of the judge? Here in MI this can make an impact, (they can even read letters to the court at the trial) do you know how this works in MD?

--just a thought.


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I wonder if he will run?


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Originally Posted by chrisner
I wonder if he will run?

Both possibilities are delicious. wink

POSOM/Toothless/cousin/ get's thrown in the hoosgow hurray
POSOM/Toothless/cousin/ runs out on XWW. dance2

I cannot decide which one is my favorite think

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Originally Posted by Pepperband
Originally Posted by chrisner
I wonder if he will run?

Both possibilities are delicious. wink

POSOM/Toothless/cousin/ get's thrown in the hoosgow hurray
POSOM/Toothless/cousin/ runs out on XWW. dance2

I cannot decide which one is my favorite think
How about this one:

POSOM/Toothless/cousin runs out on XWW AND gets thrown in the hoosegow?


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Originally Posted by Fred_in_VA
How about this one:

POSOM/Toothless/cousin runs out on XWW AND gets thrown in the hoosegow?

That's it Fredo !

The perfect storm !! dance2

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