Holy mother of moses!!! I can't beleive that it has been over two years since my last post on these boards!

I just want to give a large shout out thank you to the wonderful people on these boards who have helped strengthen my relationship with my wife. What happened 3 years ago was totally forgotten by my lovely wife sapphire. Here's the story.

My FWW's sister, my sister in-law, called Sapph and said, "Remember OM?"....

Sapph sat there completly dumb founded, she did not know his name, and said "Who?"

Her sister actually had to explain to Sapph what happened three years ago. Because her sister is having feelings for another man at work, and she does not want to ruin her marriage. She figured Sapph was the person to go to, to save her marriage. That is a story for another post.

Anyhow I wanted to show how much I have won my wife back, and what fighting for your marriage can do.

We have stuck with 15 hours of Quality time together each week (planned weekly in our weekly plan sheet). We have set very strong boundaries in our relationship, so much so that it is routine. We found new activities together to do. And we attend and train others on self motivation weekly. We use POJA, and all sorts of other training here.

Both of us over the years have trained ourselves to be positive and proactive people, outside the scope of marriage builders, but built on marriage builders principles. Sapph has become a respected leader of hundreds of others in her business, and her busniness has multiplied itself (she does Mary Kay now, drives free, and earns $50,000+ each year).

All this because I came here to save my marriage, and in the end it paid off.

BTW....we will be having our 3rd kid this Tuesday....so congratualtions to us! Pepper, and Melody you are amazing people keep it up!

A BABY is arriving !!!

We're all honorary Godparents

I wondered what happened to you guys. Congrats on the baby!! Tell Sapph we said hi!!!!!

I was thinking the same.

Congratulations!!!!

Thanks for the update. Really good and satisfying to scan this thread from the beginning and see how well exposure worked. Textbook MB recovery.

Godspeed,

Mr. Wondering

Wheels and Sapphire! I am not sure I ever posted to either of you, but sure "know" you! Nice to hear such good news. Bless your young hearts (yep, young un's)! Pass on to Sapph that a random person out here misses her feisty, sassy posts.

PS: Congrads on the BABY!!!

I have been wondering how you guys have been. I am so glad to read this amazing update. You two may not have shown many what CAN be accomplished when you actually work the program.

Congrats on the baby.