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#2336759 03/12/10 10:25 PM
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If you could post a vid of who you really are, deep inside, before the pain and disappointment visited itself upon you, what would it be?

This one would be mine. I remember listening to this song with my friends in my car (metallic blue dodge charger, jacked up in the back) while driving around the old country roads, usually in the middle of a snowstorm. And I don't ever remember being that full of hope, that full of life since, well at least since infidelity and custody fights and all that other stuff that saps the zest right out of you.

This reminds me of snow sledding and high school hockey and girlfriends, and camping/canoe trips. I don't know why, maybe because we played the album out one year. It makes me feel strong and confident like I was that year.

So, who are you?





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"It is not the critic who counts; not the man who points out how the strong man stumbles, or where the doer of deeds could have done them better. The credit belongs to the man who is actually in the arena.." Theodore Roosevelt

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ROFL
I love that one so much. It is so very you.

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Originally Posted by weaves
ROFL
I love that one so much. It is so very you.

a little terrorist. grin


"It is not the critic who counts; not the man who points out how the strong man stumbles, or where the doer of deeds could have done them better. The credit belongs to the man who is actually in the arena.." Theodore Roosevelt

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This is me. When the world was wonderful. And, all things were possible.


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WOW! I love that video. smile


"It is not the critic who counts; not the man who points out how the strong man stumbles, or where the doer of deeds could have done them better. The credit belongs to the man who is actually in the arena.." Theodore Roosevelt

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This reflects the me of my early teens when friends were the most important thing in my life.


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Originally Posted by weaves
So, who are you?


[video:myspace]http://vids.myspace.com/index.cfm?fuseaction=vids.individual&videoid=999141248[/video]



It's still who I am...

The story just took a detour I didn't expect.


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As a teenager I would pretend to be a flamenca dancer. I still do. The video to me represents passion. I put a lot of passion into everything I do.

Great videos by everyone - love them.

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Originally Posted by MelodyLane
Originally Posted by weaves
ROFL
I love that one so much. It is so very you.

a little terrorist. grin

Sweetest little terrorist, ever!

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Is there a code you all use to post the face of the video instead of just the url?

What's the code? Some kind of brackets?

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Originally Posted by weaves
Is there a code you all use to post the face of the video instead of just the url?

What's the code? Some kind of brackets?

Go back to your original post.
Copy the link to the video.
Then hit "edit".
Once you are back in your post ...
... click on the 5th tab which looks like a TV screen. (the smiley face is tab one ... then go to your right)

It gives you a choice.
If your video came from You Tube, choose that one.
Once you do that, a small box opens.
Copy the You Tube link into the box (the exact link you already posted)
Then once you are done, it will automatically put the video on the post.

You can hit "preview post" first ... to make sure you did it correctly.
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I remember relating to this song. I hadn't had a promising start - dirt poor , painfully shy, not good at much, but I had an amazing chain of blessings that led me to having a life that was an adventure beyond the wildest dreams of the chubby kid striving to stay anonymous in any and all company.

I found myself with an amazing family, a good job, heck even my dog was amazing. House was amazing. Saved, thank GOD. And I had a clear conscience.

I was a "lucky man"

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Happiness
More or less
It's just a change in me
Something in my liberty

Yeah that song summed me up then.



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I am the bumble bee girl:



Me-41 BS (FWS)
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Separated for 2 years after my A
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This was me even before I started LOOKING like Gabby Hayes!



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Now, who can argue with that?


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