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Saw this in one of the affair articles here -
"The problem that R.J. may soon face is that his wife's cheerful attitude will wear thin. There's no telling how much longer she can try to please him without an approving response from him. Sometimes I tell spouses to just avoid each other until the withdrawal stage passes because all the effort to be kind and thoughtful is easily wasted until they start feeling better."
Be prepared to get somewhat discouraged with hubby's craziness. Hope you are taking great care of your needs and doing special things for yourself. I am trying very hard to take good care of myself. About a year ago, I finally lost the last bit of my baby weight, so I am enjoying my new hobby of buying all new clothes. LOL!
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Thanks for all the support along the way.
I wish you all well. I'm outta here.
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The Tuscan burnt orange. Marriage killer.
Who knew?
They should put a warning on that stuff!
Last edited by RidicSit; 03/26/10 11:43 AM. Reason: because my brain is typing faster than my fingers can translate
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I am a Diet Dr. Pepper type of girl.
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Hey Pep- NOT nice I LOVE DrPEPPER. Oh RID- I LOVE reading your thread. Your humour(yes I know I spelled it with a "U" it is ENGLISH  ) in your sitch is so refreshing. That was the first signs to me that I was coming out of this horrible thing, because I got my humour back. It's a sign of great strength that you have kept it all along.  You are MARVELOUS.
BW(Me)aka Scotty:37 DSx2: 10,12 DDAY2(PA)Nov27/09 Plan B Dec18/09 Personal R in works Scotty's THING Newly Betrayed click herePraying for walls and doors. Thanx MM “Surviving is important. Thriving is elegant.” ? Maya Angelou PROGRESS NOT PERFECTION THANK YOU
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Dr Pepper is NOT made from prune juice !
I love Dr. Pepper.
Who said I didn't?
It DOES taste like prune juice.
I love the taste of prune juice.
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I never realized that it tasted like prune juice. Either the prune juice we get up here doesn't taste like yours or our DrPepper tastes different. I didn't know that there was a whole thing about the taste of DrPepper. Thanx for the link. I learn so much from you Cliff Claven. I will put that in my vault of useless info that I amaze my friends with. They tell me I am a well of USELESS information.
BW(Me)aka Scotty:37 DSx2: 10,12 DDAY2(PA)Nov27/09 Plan B Dec18/09 Personal R in works Scotty's THING Newly Betrayed click herePraying for walls and doors. Thanx MM “Surviving is important. Thriving is elegant.” ? Maya Angelou PROGRESS NOT PERFECTION THANK YOU
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oh crap -- I have a burnt orange in my dining room. And it might be TUSCAN.
Anyone have suggestions on safe marriage-approved color schemes?
Oh wait...I'm not married. I can have any color I want. hehehe.
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LOL Lexxxy, me too!!!!!!!!!
When my ex left, I did my bedroom all in eggplant - paint, curtains, spread, pillows, lamps and hanging mosquito net thingy. It looked like a prostitute lived there. Luckily I got through that phase.
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When my ex left, I did my bedroom all in eggplant - paint, curtains, spread, pillows, lamps and hanging mosquito net thingy. It looked like a prostitute lived there. Luckily I got through that phase.
Prostitute Purple Passion Palace of Pleasure.
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I do not believe I have ever partaken in prune juice.
Huh. Who knew?
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I wish you all well. I'm outta here.
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Hey Pep- NOT nice I LOVE DrPEPPER. Oh RID- I LOVE reading your thread. Your humour(yes I know I spelled it with a "U" it is ENGLISH ) in your sitch is so refreshing. That was the first signs to me that I was coming out of this horrible thing, because I got my humour back. It's a sign of great strength that you have kept it all along. You are MARVELOUS. Aw, thanks. I needed to hear that. It's a nice change from hearing that I am quite possibly the most evil woman alive.
Thanks for all the support along the way.
I wish you all well. I'm outta here.
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I enjoy being told I am evil these days because it is a good kind of evil. My new nickname is "EVIL GENIUS" although it is through the things that Pep, Neak, Not and others have suggested for me to do. So join the ranks of EVIL, we have room and you are FUNNY.
BW(Me)aka Scotty:37 DSx2: 10,12 DDAY2(PA)Nov27/09 Plan B Dec18/09 Personal R in works Scotty's THING Newly Betrayed click herePraying for walls and doors. Thanx MM “Surviving is important. Thriving is elegant.” ? Maya Angelou PROGRESS NOT PERFECTION THANK YOU
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I enjoy being told I am evil these days because it is a good kind of evil. My new nickname is "EVIL GENIUS" although it is through the things that Pep, Neak, Not and others have suggested for me to do. So join the ranks of EVIL, we have room and you are FUNNY. I am starting to think that Evil is way better company than Wayward. LOL! The Waywards are just way too stressful, man. They harsh my groove.
Thanks for all the support along the way.
I wish you all well. I'm outta here.
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This weekend was more of the same. I ignored mostly. Saw him for a little on Sunday. He swung wildly back and forth- between telling me how much he loves me, and telling me he can't possibly believe that I would love him, because if I loved him, I wouldn't have calculated to "ruin his life" the way I did.
He said he hurt me unintentionally, so it's better than how I hurt him.
Whatever. Talk to the hand.
He also says he won't take his meds. I said that's his choice.
I copied a bunch of the pertinent text messages he's sent about hurting himself and his depression, and sent them to his doctor.
And then I copied his parents.
They can care for him. I am not the right person. He is too angry at me to be evern 10% reasonable, and I need to focus on my kids, and on myself.
I know he sees my pain as far lesser than his, but I actually am the victim here. Hard to believe, but it is true.
Thanks for all the support along the way.
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I enjoy being told I am evil these days because it is a good kind of evil. My new nickname is "EVIL GENIUS" although it is through the things that Pep, Neak, Not and others have suggested for me to do. So join the ranks of EVIL, we have room and you are FUNNY. I am starting to think that Evil is way better company than Wayward. LOL! The Waywards are just way too stressful, man. They harsh my groove. We sure are better company. Wayturds really are a downer. So, what fun things did you do with the kiddies this weekend? I took the boys to see "How to train a dragon" on Saturday. It was a cute little movie. The main character's name is Hiccup.
BW(Me)aka Scotty:37 DSx2: 10,12 DDAY2(PA)Nov27/09 Plan B Dec18/09 Personal R in works Scotty's THING Newly Betrayed click herePraying for walls and doors. Thanx MM “Surviving is important. Thriving is elegant.” ? Maya Angelou PROGRESS NOT PERFECTION THANK YOU
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[I am going to call it Tuscan Burnt Orange from now on. In fact there are some burns on it. (Not from ant fires) Yes, but: is there any melted wax in it? 
D-Day 2-10-2009
Fully Recovered and Better Than Ever!
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I copied a bunch of the pertinent text messages he's sent about hurting himself and his depression, and sent them to his doctor.
And then I copied his parents. ![[Linked Image from millan.net]](http://www.millan.net/minimations/smileys/grouphugg.gif) it was so ... the "Evil Genius" virus spread amongst the wimmenz.
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The "Evil Genius" club. I am GLAD I am a member. Even if I am just a junior member and only have my learner's permit.
BW(Me)aka Scotty:37 DSx2: 10,12 DDAY2(PA)Nov27/09 Plan B Dec18/09 Personal R in works Scotty's THING Newly Betrayed click herePraying for walls and doors. Thanx MM “Surviving is important. Thriving is elegant.” ? Maya Angelou PROGRESS NOT PERFECTION THANK YOU
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the "Evil Genius" virus spread amongst the wimmenz. I think I've been kicked off the thread!  *sniff*
Testosterone boys! Testosterone! It ain’t just for nose, ear and back hair anymore!
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He also says he won't take his meds. I said that's his choice. ![[Linked Image from millan.net]](http://www.millan.net/minimations/smileys/peppiokay.gif) And, another item goes on the "requirements to come home" list.
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