So today my wife came over to watch a movie with me (she has been sick and has a ovorian cist) I was trying to comfort her and massage her. Well after a few minutes we were talking about "us" and I pretty much spilled my heart out for her telling her I would do anything to make her happy and reagin her love, she seemed sincere for about 10 minutes and then all of a sudden she says I have to go and just leaves. An hour later she texts me and says she loves me but just doesnt see us being happy together (again). p.s. Ive been in plan A for months. Well I got really upset and decided to call her out on her new affair with little to no evidence. Well she calls me and starts screamin saying oh if you know about it then who is it? who told u? well I didnt really have an answer so she just says "yea thats what i thought your fu**ing crazy you dont know sh**" So i got pretty fired up but decided it was better to not say anything than say something id regret so i just said Im going to go bye and hung up. Later during the day I had to meet up with her so she could sign a check that was issued to us so i could cash it and her "lover" texts her with this fancy special ring tone. so i look over and she quickly shuts her phone. Then he calls her and she walks away and talks to him while i was in line. But of course nothing is going on. oh and by the way I go out to the parking lot and wheres her truck? Oh her "friends boyfriend" let her borrow his car because she likes it. Well me still trying to be calm asks her if she wants me to come over to her new place (which she still hasnt told me where it is, just that shes living with a friend) and she tells me to just go home. So after today consider me done. I have given up. I know theres not much of a point to this post but I just need to vent. Its been 6 months since I first discovered her affairs and have not gained any ground. I will be doing a very dark plan B but not for long. I am not going to wait for her to come running back, I will be filing for seperation and if i happen to meet someone new before she realizes she has been stupid then so be it and I will just say "i told you so"

sorry if this is just pointless and brings down anyones morale but like i said im just venting

Sorry to hear about your story. This site along with notebooks is where I vent a lot. Otherwise, I might go crazy. My WH seems to do the same kind of stuff to me.

No matter how hard I try to regain his love, he gives me hope and then does something to take that hope back. He knows how I feel and that I want to work things out. He has recently done things to make me think he is interested (talking to our Pastor and the kids and my C- I think because of things they have said to me, he has not told me).

Hopefully your WW will wake up when you go to your dark plan B. There are times that I think about going to plan B, but am not sure I am completely ready. Good luck with that. Keep venting here!!

If you will keep your posts on one thread, it would help with responses. Click on notify and ask the mods to combine the threads.

Larry