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any tips on how to find the ow's husband. i've already tried a lot of things

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Ummm, well what have you tried? (Facebook, Ussearch.com, your local property appraiser's website, PI...)

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Yeah, what have you tried?
Intelius is one.
PI is another.

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I may have missed this but have you just asked Papasita for the info?


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Another site to check out for contact info is Spokeo. I was a little freaked out about how much info they had on me.


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Originally Posted by SusieQ
Another site to check out for contact info is Spokeo. I was a little freaked out about how much info they had on me.
It's been my experience that people who don't try to hide can be found easily. But there are some -- like my WW's OM -- who is an oily, sleazy player. Even paying Intelius came up with precious little. Even tracing his cell phone number came up with his first name only.

I had to "connect the dots" to make an ID, which WW finally confirmed.

This isn't meant to be a downer, but just an observation that it's best not to get one's hopes up too high. Knowledge of this type sometimes comes through less obvious means.


Preach the Gospel every day. When necessary, use words.
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