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Ahhhhh.....

Flick must be one handsome guy... and fortunate to have you, Lil.

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LOL, I am not sure he'd agree and I think there are pics on FB of him.

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Seems D!ck got served with an order from my attorney today.

Got one of those warm, fuzzy text messages starting with "U r going down a dangerous road...."

Wonder if he was warning me about those Zombie Clowns that have been turned loose on MB.

Yep, D!ck's pretty much lost it. I basically replied "I give up. You win" and "I'll continue praying for you."

Can't argue. Can't defend. He's irrational. Got to keep my cool.

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Can you make a copy of that text? It's not even a veiled threat.

Why answer him? It just lets him know you pay attention to the crap he writes. I think I'd cut any type of communication like that.

Give your attorney word for word what he texted.

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Down a dangerous road? You need that saved someplace in case he does something stupid like that.

Down a dangerous road...who is he kidding?

I hope you were just joking about giving up...who am I kidding, you ARE.


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HH,

Yeah, I would save that text. Remember, he is so snarly only because he is backed into a corner. If he really thought that he was going to walk away from this with no problem, well, he wouldn't bother to keep attacking you. It wouldn't matter. Everytime that you do something that he knows will expose him for the scumbag that he is, he gets snarly.

It means that you are doing good girlfriend. Keep up the good work. He knows he's going down.

And he knows why....


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Originally Posted by HH
Got one of those warm, fuzzy text messages starting with "U r going down a dangerous road...."


What did the rest of the text say?

I agree with the others to forward this text to your lawyer immediately.


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Yes you do. Don't respond to him. It feeds the monster.


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Originally Posted by chrisner
I agree with the others to forward this text to your lawyer immediately.

Ditto.
I once had an old boyfriend write to me:

"I will dance on your grave."
(Huh? WHAT?)

I sent it to his therapist.

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Is this weird or what!!

On Monday on this thread, we joked about golddiggers findings someone with a foot already in the grave. I wrote "Is Larry King single?"
Just posted on the web that he filed for divorce from his 7th wife yesterday -- Wednesday.

Did Bimbo already get to him??? or is my ESP in overdrive???

For my next trick...

Is George Clooney single? Might as well ask for someone much more desireable!

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As for D!ck, no more contact. For those of you wondering, here is the text:

"u r going down a dangerous road with evertgimg (everything?). Emergency hearing for retirement. How's "attorney" getting paid. I'm unemployed"


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Here HE is.......

Georgie-Boy

Teeheeee. laugh

And that truly is creeptacular about the Larry King thing. WEIRD.


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Originally Posted by Scotland
Here HE is.......

Georgie-Boy

Teeheeee. laugh

And that truly is creeptacular about the Larry King thing. WEIRD.

HH, stop trying to steal my pretend celebrity boyfriend. rotflmao


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alien replaces my husband "I'm not happy" -7/08
Discover OW-8/08 (his direct report and I work there also)
H moves out 10/1/08, confront Ow 10/28/08
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So Larry was cheating with his wife's younger sister? Can someone fill me in? What is it about this guy that women see as attractive or sexy, or whatever? I mean, this dude is in his 70's.

I think it's all about size....



The size of his wallet that is....


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Announcer's voice: D!ck -- You've just been fired from your job. What are you going to do next?

D!ck: I'm going to Las Vegas!!! clap clap clap

That, my MB friends, is where D!ck is. The FOURTH time in 2010. The fantasy continues..... rant2

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Must still have some money somewhere. It's ok. It'll run out, just like Bimbo....


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Guess we know where the 401K money is...er...was.

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Vegas again? What the heck is he doing that he can't do here?!


One year becomes two, two years becomes five, five becomes ten and before you know it, you've wasted your whole life on a problem you can't solve. That's one way to spend your life. -rwinger

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Ah... gamble...stay in a suite for free...gamble...hide out...gamble...wine/dine Bimbo...gamble...act like a kid on spring break....gamble...see a comped show....gamble....get away from Bimbo's kids....gamble.... ditch responsibilities ....gamble....forget about being fired.... gamble...act like a whale (that's a BIG gambler).... gamble....drink...gamble...BE TREATED LIKE A ROCK STAR...gamble...Avoid contact with HH or our kids.... gamble...

I don't know, but I might see a little pattern here.

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HE'S AN IDIOT IF HE THINKS HH WON'T USE IT AGAINST HIM IN A COURT OF LAW.


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Let me in on your plan exactly? When is next court, anyway? When is the next time he gets nailed?


One year becomes two, two years becomes five, five becomes ten and before you know it, you've wasted your whole life on a problem you can't solve. That's one way to spend your life. -rwinger

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Maybe if you move court to Vegas he might show up


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Quote: "First thing you do is pray; when there is nothing else to do, continue to pray."
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