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Haha, I love this thread!!
WW: This is the one time in my life that I want to do something for myself, why can't you just let me go?
Uhhh, really?
She denies saying that now...
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"I would not let you give me oral sex because I was with the OM about 10 minutes prior."
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"My emotional needs not being met in our marriage were attention and affection. You need to stop suffocating me."
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"You do with your affair partners in bed what you are afraid to do with your husband."
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"The first marriage is for love, the second sex and the third for money."
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"I want to recommit and work on the marriage but I need 3 months to date other men."
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"I wish you could stop being so nice and understanding and just be an total a-s-s-h-o-l-e."
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"OM has absolutely nothing to do with our marriage problems." Just for the record, I've heard Skatt shovel this on SEVERAL occasions. And I cannot forget this little gem: "I gave up on the M before I got involved with OM." Oh really? Funny, I never got that "I'm giving up on the M" memo...... TB My WH said something along those lines also...but my WH also added that he thought I knew it was over and that he had moved on...  Uhhhh, Yea...is that why he felt the need to lie to me about goin out with work friends, why didnt he just say "yeah I am goin out to screw my mistriess tonite"...I mean if I already knew I wouldnt have had a problem with that, right? 
BW me-41 WH -39 DS - 9 married 12 Yrs together(?) 18 yrs when A discovered DDay aug 2007 found MB dec 2007 Moved out april 2008 still seeing OW Plan B Okay I fixed the ages, it was looking screwy. 
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"OM has absolutely nothing to do with our marriage problems."
Oh yeah, I got this little gem as well except for me it was OMs - multiple.
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After discovering husbands 3 month long A I got this: "I really did spend more time trying to back out of this than I did being in it".
and...
"Of course I feel sorry for her, I feel sorry for the mess she made of her marriage and what she put her family through"
HUH???? What about what YOU did to me and our family?
Me-BS 41
WH-40
DS-9
DS-6
DS-3
12/2/2009 Discovered WH "Online flirting"
3/17/2010 WH admitted to PA
3/21/2010 WH admitted to 2 other ONS
-We are working on it....
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Oh yes, I have another gem....
"I am looking for the silver lining in this and don't regret this affair, because it got us to talk. We would never have been here otherwise."
And all the while the A continued.....sigh.......wayturds!
Me: BW, 27
Him: WH, 29
DD 4
DS 1
Married 07/25/09
A began end of 08/2009 (possibly sooner)
D-Day: 3/31/10
2nd D-Day: 4/9/2010
3rd D-Day: 4/21/10
Plan B (shortlived as it was): 18/05/10
WH decides to work on marriage: 20/05/10
False Recovery, Back to Plan B: 13/08/10
Filed for D Feb 2011, D April 2012
Looking forward to the sunshine and rainbows life should hold for us all!
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After discovering husbands 3 month long A I got this: "I really did spend more time trying to back out of this than I did being in it".
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"Of course I feel sorry for her, I feel sorry for the mess she made of her marriage and what she put her family through"
HUH???? What about what YOU did to me and our family? When I called OW and confronted her...WH said to me "Stop harrassing her, she doesnt need this, she has a son to take care of." Yeah, okay and what are me and DS? Chopped liver, I guess. How about I will stop harrassing her if she stops having an AFFAIR with my husband! Like I need this? 
BW me-41 WH -39 DS - 9 married 12 Yrs together(?) 18 yrs when A discovered DDay aug 2007 found MB dec 2007 Moved out april 2008 still seeing OW Plan B Okay I fixed the ages, it was looking screwy.
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After months and months of lies, denials, sugar-coating, scapegoating, etc., etc, WW said the following when I literally caught her red-handed, much to her surprise, driving up to her married-OM's POS shack (complete with Jerry Springer-like jalopy in the yard) during the day:
"I'm just house-sitting and kid-watching for a friend who's out-of-town"
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 Im sorry SDCW, its actually sad, what they say...but God do they think we are stupid? Its just so ridiculous that its funny.
BW me-41 WH -39 DS - 9 married 12 Yrs together(?) 18 yrs when A discovered DDay aug 2007 found MB dec 2007 Moved out april 2008 still seeing OW Plan B Okay I fixed the ages, it was looking screwy.
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Here's another pearl of deceitful self-delusion that came from xWW (indirectly via her scuzzbag attorney to my attorney about ME):
" SDCW has a screw loose--my client is tired of him thinking she was some sort of s**t! "
Hmmm...
WW was sleeping with 2 men at the same time...
One of them was HER HUSBAND...
One of them was ANOTHER WOMAN'S HUSBAND...
In front of OM's kids...
Neither betrayed-spouse has ever been told the truth...
Call it whatever you see fit, Counselor....
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Well gee, until the world sees it, she's not a s**t.
Didn't you know that? /sarcasm
One year becomes two, two years becomes five, five becomes ten and before you know it, you've wasted your whole life on a problem you can't solve. That's one way to spend your life. -rwinger
I will not spend my life this way.
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I've gotten a lot of comedy gems, but I guess my two favorites have been the random complaint about not liking the paint colors in the kitchen ( drives a grown man into the arms of another woman. Who knew?), and then asking me to write the OW, call the other woman, and tell her that I had been lying about being married to him. He didn't want her to hate him. Um yeah. I 'll get right on that buddy. You stand there and hold your breath, while I, uh, paint the kitchen white? 
Thanks for all the support along the way.
I wish you all well. I'm outta here.
Peace.
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Oh thank you , I havent had too many moments of laughter lately, Im still realing in shock from discovering my hubby being with women AND men ..while pregnant. I feel like I am in the freaking twighlight zone, but you just gave me a REALY good chuckle. THANKS!!
Me: BW 35
Him: WH 36
DD: 7
DS: 1yr. M: 12yrs
DDay: Feb 10 2010
**Always speak your mind.....even if your voice shakes**
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THere are other posts of this sort too.
VETS! Could you try and bump the other boards of this nature up, if they still exist?
One year becomes two, two years becomes five, five becomes ten and before you know it, you've wasted your whole life on a problem you can't solve. That's one way to spend your life. -rwinger
I will not spend my life this way.
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I found the email, called him at work and he says "your taking it out of context".....now how does the words I LOVE YOU, and sorry I made a pass at you, constatute out of context. Is there any other way to read that...tsk tsk.....MORON
Me: BW 35
Him: WH 36
DD: 7
DS: 1yr. M: 12yrs
DDay: Feb 10 2010
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