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He used to put $1000/mo in his WW's account to help her pay off bills. She asked him to stop putting money once he found out about her affair and exposed. He exposed to her and OM's CO, so it seems that OM is no longer contacting his WW. She haphazardly filed for D, but nothing can come of it now that he's deployed. In her last email she said, "I like how u got the message to stop putting money in my account but can't understand that I don't want to talk to you or hear from you EVER again." (He's been sending her lighthearted email updates every 3-4 days to try and meet the need for conversation).
Our question is this, should Gerkaguards still be meeting this need for financial support? Is it an opportunity to meet a need in plan A? The discussion begins on page 83. Thanks in advance.
Last edited by jmwc95; 05/05/10 08:32 AM.
Jim BS - 32 (me) FWW - 33 Married 8/31/03 No kids (but 3 cats) D-Days - 8/25/06 (EA), 11/3/06 (PA) NC agreed to - 11/8/06 NC broken - 11/28/06, 12/16/06, 1/18/07, 1/26/07, 1/27/07 Status - In Recovery Jim's Story
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I would prefer not to have two threads going concurrently... I already deposited the money, $1000 isn't much to gamble on my marriage.
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