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I think he's gone...... couldn't take being told to do the right thing....  At least he KNOWS what the right thing is. Let's hope he acts on it.
D-Day 2-10-2009
Fully Recovered and Better Than Ever!
Thank you Marriage Builders!
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Someday our words will sink in with poor Joey. Hopefully before more lives get wrecked.
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I often think, and sometimes say, that God needs both Elijahs and Isaiahs. (Guess which one Mel is.  ) Elijah was a Texas boy, Neak. 
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A smooth sea never made a skilled mariner.
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Elvis has left the building??
Me 55, XWH 53, M 22 years
D17, D30
alien replaces my husband "I'm not happy" -7/08
Discover OW-8/08 (his direct report and I work there also)
H moves out 10/1/08, confront Ow 10/28/08
Plan B 1/09
D final 12/09
Quote: "First thing you do is pray; when there is nothing else to do, continue to pray."
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We can all chip in some spare change to use the pay phone.
A smooth sea never made a skilled mariner.
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Elvis has gone into denial that there ever was a building to leave!!  tl
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He's like Keyser Soze, "And just like that, poof, he's gone."
Jim BS - 32 (me) FWW - 33 Married 8/31/03 No kids (but 3 cats) D-Days - 8/25/06 (EA), 11/3/06 (PA) NC agreed to - 11/8/06 NC broken - 11/28/06, 12/16/06, 1/18/07, 1/26/07, 1/27/07 Status - In Recovery Jim's Story
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You are all so suspicious! How do you KNOW he hasn't called??? 
A smooth sea never made a skilled mariner.
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He's like Keyser Soze, "And just like that, poof, he's gone." lol I had to laugh at this one! Guys go easy on the kid, he's "suffering," remember?
Me: BW, 27
Him: WH, 29
DD 4
DS 1
Married 07/25/09
A began end of 08/2009 (possibly sooner)
D-Day: 3/31/10
2nd D-Day: 4/9/2010
3rd D-Day: 4/21/10
Plan B (shortlived as it was): 18/05/10
WH decides to work on marriage: 20/05/10
False Recovery, Back to Plan B: 13/08/10
Filed for D Feb 2011, D April 2012
Looking forward to the sunshine and rainbows life should hold for us all!
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I know a real good way to bring about the beginning of the end for his suffering. Hint: it involves the numbers 0-9, and some fingers doing some walking.
Maybe even reaching out and touching someone.
Oh wait, he already did that.
A smooth sea never made a skilled mariner.
~ English proverb Neak's Story
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I'm joey's older sister. I outed him, after giving due diligence in allowing him to do it himself.
In joey123's words, I am now "dead" to him.
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It needed to be done and he knew it and even agreed. Thank you for doing the right thing. Who all did you expose him to? I'm sorry he is not talking to you. He'll get over it.
Me 31
Him 26
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DD11
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Well at least someone did it. Good on you rltraveled. What did her husband say?
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I'm joey's older sister. I outed him, after giving due diligence in allowing him to do it himself.
In joey123's words, I am now "dead" to him. Awesome job. By the way, how much older are you? He's 28, and you've been married 28 years? I'm sure you are "dead to him" just about as long as it take him to get through withdrawal. Were you the one that sent him here?
Jim BS - 32 (me) FWW - 33 Married 8/31/03 No kids (but 3 cats) D-Days - 8/25/06 (EA), 11/3/06 (PA) NC agreed to - 11/8/06 NC broken - 11/28/06, 12/16/06, 1/18/07, 1/26/07, 1/27/07 Status - In Recovery Jim's Story
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I'm joey's older sister. I outed him, after giving due diligence in allowing him to do it himself.
In joey123's words, I am now "dead" to him. Bravo to you!! 
"It is not the critic who counts; not the man who points out how the strong man stumbles, or where the doer of deeds could have done them better. The credit belongs to the man who is actually in the arena.." Theodore Roosevelt Exposure 101
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Widowed 11/10/12 after 35 years of marriage
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“In a sense now, I am homeless. For the home, the place of refuge, solitude, love-where my husband lived-no longer exists.” Joyce Carolyn Oates, A Widow's Story
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p.s. y'all are mean and just "ran off" the poor fella! 
"It is not the critic who counts; not the man who points out how the strong man stumbles, or where the doer of deeds could have done them better. The credit belongs to the man who is actually in the arena.." Theodore Roosevelt Exposure 101
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 No good deed goes unpunished.
A smooth sea never made a skilled mariner.
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A very rough few days around here.
Like you guys, I tried to get him to do it himself. He did do this ridiculous, poorly executed act, coming into my office and pretending that he had called. I told him I would verify. Of course, they had all their bases covered. OW pretended to be her husband on FB. It was very obvious. But I also let the BS's mother and brother know. In the end, I don't think they believe me because OW headed them off, told them I was a nut or something.
See, I tried to show restraint, let joey do it himself. It sorta backfired, though.
But, where there is smoke, there is fire. Hopefully, this family will figure it out sooner or later.
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