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I got the wine! ![[Linked Image from pic4ever.com]](http://www.pic4ever.com/images/oregonian_winesmiley.gif) I'll go over to lg's thread and tell him to come on over and bring the grill... ![[Linked Image from freesmileys.org]](http://www.freesmileys.org/smileys/smiley-eatdrink021.gif)
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Thanks V and sh.  I think there must be a way to block his calls. But I get a lot of satisfaction from NOT answering. (if I get too tempted I will make sure to block all contact...)
Me: BW, 27
Him: WH, 29
DD 4
DS 1
Married 07/25/09
A began end of 08/2009 (possibly sooner)
D-Day: 3/31/10
2nd D-Day: 4/9/2010
3rd D-Day: 4/21/10
Plan B (shortlived as it was): 18/05/10
WH decides to work on marriage: 20/05/10
False Recovery, Back to Plan B: 13/08/10
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I got the wine! I'll go over to lg's thread and tell him to come on over and bring the grill... Now GRILLING I can do!  Plan B party on my thread!
Me: BW, 27
Him: WH, 29
DD 4
DS 1
Married 07/25/09
A began end of 08/2009 (possibly sooner)
D-Day: 3/31/10
2nd D-Day: 4/9/2010
3rd D-Day: 4/21/10
Plan B (shortlived as it was): 18/05/10
WH decides to work on marriage: 20/05/10
False Recovery, Back to Plan B: 13/08/10
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I got the wine! I'll go over to lg's thread and tell him to come on over and bring the grill... NP, barbecue at your house?  Oh, I mean thread not house...
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BW me-41 WH -39 DS - 9 married 12 Yrs together(?) 18 yrs when A discovered DDay aug 2007 found MB dec 2007 Moved out april 2008 still seeing OW Plan B Okay I fixed the ages, it was looking screwy.
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lol sure we could do the house too....that way when WH shows up there'll be lots of people around.... !
Me: BW, 27
Him: WH, 29
DD 4
DS 1
Married 07/25/09
A began end of 08/2009 (possibly sooner)
D-Day: 3/31/10
2nd D-Day: 4/9/2010
3rd D-Day: 4/21/10
Plan B (shortlived as it was): 18/05/10
WH decides to work on marriage: 20/05/10
False Recovery, Back to Plan B: 13/08/10
Filed for D Feb 2011, D April 2012
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Okay, Im ready. Wheres the grub? ![[Linked Image from pic4ever.com]](http://www.pic4ever.com/images/91.gif)
BW me-41 WH -39 DS - 9 married 12 Yrs together(?) 18 yrs when A discovered DDay aug 2007 found MB dec 2007 Moved out april 2008 still seeing OW Plan B Okay I fixed the ages, it was looking screwy.
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Okay, Im ready. Wheres the grub? Ohhhh, noooo...not so fast - you've got to clean the grill - you used it last to grill yourself, remember? 
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I haven't finished reading all of the posts. I do have to say that it was advised to me on my thread to send a copy of the Plan B letter to POSOW. It is in SAA too. So, if it was good enough for DrH to suggest it, I did it.  It is intended to let POSOW know that your WH didn't leave YOU, that YOU asked him to leave and the extra line at the end is intended to shake up the affair. That was the reason I did it. Sorry, I didn't want to forget what I wanted to say, Carry on.
BW(Me)aka Scotty:37 DSx2: 10,12 DDAY2(PA)Nov27/09 Plan B Dec18/09 Personal R in works Scotty's THING Newly Betrayed click herePraying for walls and doors. Thanx MM “Surviving is important. Thriving is elegant.” ? Maya Angelou PROGRESS NOT PERFECTION THANK YOU
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 Yes, I remember.
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BW me-41 WH -39 DS - 9 married 12 Yrs together(?) 18 yrs when A discovered DDay aug 2007 found MB dec 2007 Moved out april 2008 still seeing OW Plan B Okay I fixed the ages, it was looking screwy.
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I haven't finished reading all of the posts. I do have to say that it was advised to me on my thread to send a copy of the Plan B letter to POSOW. It is in SAA too. So, if it was good enough for DrH to suggest it, I did it. It is intended to let POSOW know that your WH didn't leave YOU, that YOU asked him to leave and the extra line at the end is intended to shake up the affair. That was the reason I did it. Sorry, I didn't want to forget what I wanted to say, Carry on. Yeah, NP, if it says to do it in SAA, then I would send it to POSOW...
BW me-41 WH -39 DS - 9 married 12 Yrs together(?) 18 yrs when A discovered DDay aug 2007 found MB dec 2007 Moved out april 2008 still seeing OW Plan B Okay I fixed the ages, it was looking screwy.
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I haven't finished reading all of the posts. I do have to say that it was advised to me on my thread to send a copy of the Plan B letter to POSOW. It is in SAA too. So, if it was good enough for DrH to suggest it, I did it. It is intended to let POSOW know that your WH didn't leave YOU, that YOU asked him to leave and the extra line at the end is intended to shake up the affair. That was the reason I did it. Sorry, I didn't want to forget what I wanted to say, Carry on. YUP
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So, could I subject it "A little good news for your day" and end it with "I love my husband, the man I married, who is a good man and good father, and look forward to being with him again. In the meantime, enjoy the cheating part of him!"
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Me: BW, 27
Him: WH, 29
DD 4
DS 1
Married 07/25/09
A began end of 08/2009 (possibly sooner)
D-Day: 3/31/10
2nd D-Day: 4/9/2010
3rd D-Day: 4/21/10
Plan B (shortlived as it was): 18/05/10
WH decides to work on marriage: 20/05/10
False Recovery, Back to Plan B: 13/08/10
Filed for D Feb 2011, D April 2012
Looking forward to the sunshine and rainbows life should hold for us all!
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IDK if I would even bother, NP......I mean it might throw a little fire in the A though, cause OW to LB... 
BW me-41 WH -39 DS - 9 married 12 Yrs together(?) 18 yrs when A discovered DDay aug 2007 found MB dec 2007 Moved out april 2008 still seeing OW Plan B Okay I fixed the ages, it was looking screwy.
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No, just be short and sweet about it. No cutting him or her down as much as it would feel good to do so.
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Im so ready for a party, NP!! be strong, be DARK. It helps more than you know.
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Won't he just get angrier at me for contacting her?
Me: BW, 27
Him: WH, 29
DD 4
DS 1
Married 07/25/09
A began end of 08/2009 (possibly sooner)
D-Day: 3/31/10
2nd D-Day: 4/9/2010
3rd D-Day: 4/21/10
Plan B (shortlived as it was): 18/05/10
WH decides to work on marriage: 20/05/10
False Recovery, Back to Plan B: 13/08/10
Filed for D Feb 2011, D April 2012
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That's what I was thinking too. No cutting down WH. You can cut him down on here all you want, we don't mind.
BW(Me)aka Scotty:37 DSx2: 10,12 DDAY2(PA)Nov27/09 Plan B Dec18/09 Personal R in works Scotty's THING Newly Betrayed click herePraying for walls and doors. Thanx MM “Surviving is important. Thriving is elegant.” ? Maya Angelou PROGRESS NOT PERFECTION THANK YOU
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Won't he just get angrier at me for contacting her? It doesn't matter YOU WON'T KNOW. PLAN B PLAN B PLAN B. No expectations. No worries. NO DRAMA.
BW(Me)aka Scotty:37 DSx2: 10,12 DDAY2(PA)Nov27/09 Plan B Dec18/09 Personal R in works Scotty's THING Newly Betrayed click herePraying for walls and doors. Thanx MM “Surviving is important. Thriving is elegant.” ? Maya Angelou PROGRESS NOT PERFECTION THANK YOU
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Weak moment.....Oh God. What if my husband never comes back to me and I never see him again?? 
Me: BW, 27
Him: WH, 29
DD 4
DS 1
Married 07/25/09
A began end of 08/2009 (possibly sooner)
D-Day: 3/31/10
2nd D-Day: 4/9/2010
3rd D-Day: 4/21/10
Plan B (shortlived as it was): 18/05/10
WH decides to work on marriage: 20/05/10
False Recovery, Back to Plan B: 13/08/10
Filed for D Feb 2011, D April 2012
Looking forward to the sunshine and rainbows life should hold for us all!
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