To make my story short. My wife and I separated nearly 2 months ago. We have a lot of fights and disagreements due to different cultures, immaturity, frustrations, tempers, etc.

At first I thought that I also wanted to divorce, i was really tired from all the problems specially the last year where we separated for 4 months. We tried a little bit to work on our issues but just by ourselves, went 4 times to counseling only but stopped because we thought we could solve our issues by ourselves, we were to proud.

Anyway, I reconsidered and asked her to try again, she didn't. I thought she was going to file for divorce ASAP but I found out 3 weeks later that she wanted to wait to be sure about what she wanted to do. Since then we have been in contact just by email, she says it is not right for her to talk on the phone, she needs time and space because she is really hurt.

I am sorry but I want to vent, I don't know what's going to happen to my marriage, I have been going to counseling since we separated and reading a lot of material. I have learned so much these past months that had given me peace but today I don't know what happened, it has been a really depressing day after having 2 weeks of feeling great.

I have told her that I loved her and I didn't want to lose her in a letter still don't know what she has been thinking, she is a really decisive woman, doesn't beat around the bush if she is sure about something. 2 months and counting is really unlike her, she must be having a really hard time deciding. I want to clarify that I have respected her wishes and I have just contacted her with issues not related to the marriage, no begging, pleading, blaming, etc.

I just hope for the best, Any words of advice would be great thanks!