Well, I must say, my kiddos are AWESOME. Today, I said, "Well, since DS7 doesn't need his car seat anymore, I guess Daddy doesn't have to come on the porch." I guess when Bampot dropped them off, this was the exchange:

DS9, "Daddy, since DS7 doesn't have his seat anymore, you can say bye to us here."

Bampot, "But I LOVE to come on the porch."

DS7, "Is that because it makes you think about Mommy?"

Bampot doesn't answer and doesn't come on the porch. WOOOHOOOO.

A small victory. You see, I was a little worried about some of the things on the porch being taken by Bampot. That's where I store the tent, chairs, etc for outside. I was worried and was trying to figure out where to move the stuff.

On another note, I was trying to figure out to how uninvite Bampot to DS9's 10th birthday this month. You see, I wrote in my children addendum that Bampot could take DS9 to the party. I decided that I wanted to go instead. I was going to write to the IMs. Then DS9 said, "I don't want to go go-karting, that was Daddy's idea." We have decided to do something else for DS9's party. No uninvite necessary. Wooohooo. Life has a way of working itself out sometimes. And to think, DS9 didn't even know I was thinking about how to do it.

I had more dreams about Bampot last night, and woke up this morning missing him. Don't worry, my little "Loonie in the pickle jar police" made sure I made the necessary deposits. They are really HAPPY we are going to go to Great Wolf Lodge soon(they don't know when) and they will miss a day of school. I figured that was a good use of the loonies.

I am glad things are working out, making it a little easier on you....I really dont know what I would do without my DS.

Great wolf lodge?

Awesome scotty. Grats

Do you really not know what Great Wolf Lodge is?

If so, it is a hotel chain with a HUGE waterpark INSIDE. It has a lot of things to cater to children. It is A LOT of money to go there. I got a deal through my work though, it will only cost us 220 for ONE night on a WEEKDAY.

Well, here is a message I sent to my sister-in-law(my husband's sister) on facebook today. She asked me about being invited to my DS9's 10th birthday party. She then posted some status updates that were directed at me in a passive aggressive sort of way. I had to say SOMETHING. This sister-in-law has been in an affair for 5 years and has 2 OC. These are the nephews I refer to in this letter. It was a hard message to send. I tried to make it as nice as I could and I made sure to CC my MIL so she would know the TRUTH.


The only time I called my WH by name in this message was where I typed Bampot(once). The rest of the message is the way I typed it. I feel better.

Dayum gurl, GREAT letter!

My favorite part:


I can practically hear the spewing-hussy-fit from here in California !

Call a spade a spade, and a hoe a hoe.

Did you hear the loud cheers and applause coming all the way from So California? That was ME!! You are one helluva woman, scotty!!!

Your letter is great! It should have SiL squirming in her hole under that rock!

I am sure that she hated me when her affair was first discovered because I am the one who told her BH. Every time I saw her with her POSOM, I told her BH. Her BH tried to take her back. She had an abortion(which was TOTALLY unlike her). She then got pregnant again with OC#1 and my BIL was willing to raise the child with her. She said okay, but continued her affair. It was a horrible 2 years until she finally moved out. Only when she moved out, she convinced her then 3 year old daughter to make false accusations about molestation by my BIL. She then kept my niece away from him for 8 weeks until they had their first court appearance. Bampot went to court with my BIL, who was also his bestfriend. He didn't talk to SIL(his own sister) until this past December. After that court appearance, my BIL had enough and moved on.

I was just sick of her tw0-faced wayward speak. She is 32 years old and acts like a 15 year old(I would know, she was 13 when Bampot and I started dating). Her life with her POSOM isn't better. It IS WORSE.

I CC'd it to MIL for two reasons. I wanted to show my side so my SIL couldn't spin it. I also hoped that maybe my MIL would choose the side of good and join me in the fight against Bampot's affair. I have no expectations. I just know what sometimes can happen.

It feels so much better to have written that to her. Her new FB status is, "I am so PISSED right now." Someone commented, "Is it something boy related?" I commented, "Nope. She is mad at meeeeeee. It's okay. I didn't actually do anything to her. You are her friend. You can support her. I have MARVELOUS friends who support me." I don't like to air my garbage on FB in public. I don't like swearing on there either. Not all of my friends want to see that. Horrible.

Try something.
Copy your letter and put it in as a google search.
She might be able to find you on MB.

Just a precaution.

Ohhhhh never thought about that. Thanx Pep.

I am editing the letter out as a precaution.

The whole letter was too large. I didn't do a shorter search. I just took it all out as a precaution. I am sure enough people saw it. It was a good letter too.

You're welcome.
It's happened before .... I just don't want your safety here on MB compromised.

Ahh you're da bestest.

I really did miss you Pep. Glad you're back though.

Thanks sweetie.

I really do have a lot going on.
Still using my phone or my iPad to post.
It's not the same.

Also, I am back on a high dose of meds for my chronic disease.
Prednisone makes me feel great and bad at the same time.

But, it's helping. So, side effects are acceptable.

Well, you need to take care of yourself. You were a great help to me in the beginning. I talk of you to my IRL friends OFTEN. I think they think I have a girl-crush on you. HEHEHEHEHE. A lot of people helped me and I have a lot of people to thank. I just remember that YOU were the one who got through my New BS fog.

Remember, WWPD? HEHEHEHEE.

Bravo Scottie!
I saw it before removal and I thought it was spectacular!