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MarriedForever #2387778 06/09/10 06:47 PM
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He probably had to quit posting for legal reasons and to protect himself.


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Originally Posted by Lady_Clueless
He probably had to quit posting for legal reasons and to protect himself.

I actually thought of this as well, LOL.


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Hey Forum, went to trial, 3 days. Judge rejected all LoG's claims, gave me virtually all that I asked for, including primary residency for determining school district for children, joint legal and physical custody and have the kids 50/50. Moving on with my life...

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HopefulButScared #2571699 12/05/11 05:20 PM
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Originally Posted by HopefulButScared
Hey Forum, went to trial, 3 days. Judge rejected all LoG's claims, gave me virtually all that I asked for, including primary residency for determining school district for children, joint legal and physical custody and have the kids 50/50. Moving on with my life...

HBS

Wow! I am sorry to hear it hasn't worked out but am glad you hear you came out so well! Can you give us more of an update?


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Send me a PM Melody?


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HopefulButScared #2571713 12/05/11 05:53 PM
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HopefulButScared #2571920 12/06/11 11:31 AM
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Originally Posted by HopefulButScared
Hey Forum, went to trial, 3 days. Judge rejected all LoG's claims, gave me virtually all that I asked for, including primary residency for determining school district for children, joint legal and physical custody and have the kids 50/50. Moving on with my life...

HBS

Sorry to hear about your divorce but glad to see you got 50/50 and primary custody. That seems like a good custody outcome but I hesitate to congratulate when you may have been going for 80-20.

I went back and read your story. Wow... "lionorgazelle" was an appropriate name for your wife. What an elaborate set up acting like the gazelle. It's so easy to go back and read this in hindsight and SEE her gaslighting you.

Anyway...who did the OM end up being?

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Hi, Hopeful. I have wondered about you many times over the last year. Sorry to hear that your wife turned out this way, but I am glad that you were able to get loose of her and get most of what you asked for. Thank you for coming back to give us an update!


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