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Wait ... Jamela, did you think this was a women's site or something? Not a site where men and women post together?


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Wow, markos, I think you just got neutered.


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Rats, I was hoping to do that.

You were hoping to neuter markos???
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Originally Posted by maritalbliss
You were hoping to neuter markos???
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Ever hear the "The Man Song"?

I can't stop giggling over here ... okay, I'll sober up now.


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OMG, that is hysterical, Prisca.....


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Originally Posted by Jamela
Hi Gack, I am more of a realist. I don't believe that you can go a lifetime with one person without someone messing up somewhere along the way.
Uhhhh.....

What does that mean?

Originally Posted by Jamela
This was a mistake to get on a site with a bunch of miserable closed minded man hating witches!! wowwww...I hate to hear what your men did to you.
I am not a man hating witch,

I AM A MAN!!

I am married to a woman who had an affair that produced a child, so I may know something about your situation.

So, just in case you are still reading, please answer the following questions from my previous post to you.

Originally Posted by Gack1
Well heck, I'll bite.

When did/do you plan on getting married to this man?

Is your boyfriend willing to go "No contact for LIFE" with this other woman?

Even if you where married you have almost no chance for a recovery without LIFETIME no contact.



And I assure you, I am no Lady!

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Gack, you were neutered tooo....Im sorry....


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Originally Posted by stillhere8126
Gack, you were neutered tooo....Im sorry....
No way! TEEF
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Wheeewwwwww



I checked, they are still there. hurray


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Originally Posted by Jamela
This was a mistake to get on a site with a bunch of miserable closed minded man hating witches!! wowwww...I hate to hear what your men did to you. See this is what happen when you trust,trust,trust....don't belittle me cause it's coming to bite you in the you know where!!

to answer your question..he makes a very, very good living..

Hey it worked for Tiger Woods...you don't see little miss nanny running any where! Trust me, I probably get more benefits from my bf than you'll ever get from you HUSBAND!

YOU BASH ME AND YOU'RE GONNA GET IT RIGHT BACK!


rotflmao rotflmao rotflmao

Seriously, you don't hear what you want and you call US witches?? You don't need this? Really? People take their valuable time to craft reasoned, experience driven advice and THIS is how you repay them??? Hun, you're a piece of work....

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I promise, just keep smiling and it'll all be unicorns and rainbows.

That's what you were looking for right? It'll all be ok. Raise your cheating boyfriends children from his crack head baby mamma. Keep your 'special' 'unique' unconditional love relationship. Don't expect anything else because this is the best you will ever get from him. You don't have the protection of a marriage to guarantee you anything else...

But why do I bother - you don't want to learn or improve... Gonna go hop back on my broom and start spreading more bitterness and anger.


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[Linked Image from pic4ever.com] Gack...Im glad your okay...


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We got together only 8 years ago when we were both free! No, we did not sin.

Umm...just so you know, if you've had sex with this man, to whom you are not married, then you and he did sin.



"Your actions are so loud that I can't hear a word you're saying!"

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Wow, markos, I think you just got neutered.


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Rats, I was hoping to do that.

You were hoping to neuter markos???
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Dr. Harley suggested it. It's Basic Concept #11.


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I with ya, Glenda...er, I mean Vibrissa! grin


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Originally Posted by Vibrissa
Keep your 'special' 'unique' unconditional love relationship.

You know, the interesting thing about a unique relationship is that it can't possibly have been studied thousands of times and have books written about it to tell you what does and doesn't work.


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Originally Posted by markos
Originally Posted by Vibrissa
Keep your 'special' 'unique' unconditional love relationship.

You know, the interesting thing about a unique relationship is that it can't possibly have been studied thousands of times and have books written about it to tell you what does and doesn't work.

Um, that's "special, unique, unconditional" relationship, markos. crazy


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I believe I was commenting at marital bliss when I made the comment about man hating whitches..I don't believe I bashed you marko! But I do want to add how unfortunate it is to get on a site with people who are suppose to be supportive to someone who is going through real life issues and all you get is a lot of laughter and jokes! God bless all of you...you are going to need it! don't think because your marriages are going fine now that tomorrow things won't come crashing down on your heads!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! and I won't laugh..

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****edit*****

I find it telling that you went back and edited out all of the venom you were spouting at us for not supporting your opinions.

Your threats are immature and are probably a TOS violation...lemme check...

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Originally Posted by Jamela
you will get yours too for laughing......watch and remember me!


Ok...what channel?

You going to be named as a co-respondent?

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