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Please keep my brother in your thoughts. Last night he went to the hospital with severe stomach pain and it was found to be appendicitis.
I haven't heard yet about what they're doing (whether they are removing it or not), but I do know that things can go badly if not treated. Though he is being tended very well.
One year becomes two, two years becomes five, five becomes ten and before you know it, you've wasted your whole life on a problem you can't solve. That's one way to spend your life. -rwinger
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 He is in my prayers tonite, karma....
BW me-41 WH -39 DS - 9 married 12 Yrs together(?) 18 yrs when A discovered DDay aug 2007 found MB dec 2007 Moved out april 2008 still seeing OW Plan B Okay I fixed the ages, it was looking screwy. 
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karma, your brother will be in my prayers.
"It is not the critic who counts; not the man who points out how the strong man stumbles, or where the doer of deeds could have done them better. The credit belongs to the man who is actually in the arena.." Theodore Roosevelt Exposure 101
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Thank you both.
I learned this morning that he has already had his appendix out.
He'll be out of work for several weeks.
One year becomes two, two years becomes five, five becomes ten and before you know it, you've wasted your whole life on a problem you can't solve. That's one way to spend your life. -rwinger
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Glad to hear it hadn't ruptured, karma. I know several people who have recently had appendicitis. Something in the water? Hoping for a speedy recovery.
Me:BW, FWH 1DD 1DS
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He's at home now. I find it very...wrong...that anyone would come home so soon after major surgery. Thanks for all the prayers, it looks like they worked.
One year becomes two, two years becomes five, five becomes ten and before you know it, you've wasted your whole life on a problem you can't solve. That's one way to spend your life. -rwinger
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Appendectomies are no longer major surgery. Prisca was home less than 24 hours after hers was removed. The doctors said it was no problem. There were a couple of nurses who were "alarmed," though. I think Prisca wanted me to punch them.
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Appendectomies are no longer major surgery. Speak for yourself.
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Two years ago, my son had one and it was pretty bad as he also had peritonitis (sp?). It was done laprascopically so it wasn't a "major" surgery but it is still pretty scary and painful.
Then a few days after we got home, we had to go back because he was experiencing stomach pain again. It turned out to be an obstruction ~ I guess because everything (bowels, etc) is inflamed from surgery that can happen. Please make your brother knows to go right back to the hospital if he starts experiencing discomfort again.
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He's telling us now, that it actually did rupture, so he's extremely lucky that he went to the hospital when he did, because "they caught it just in time."
Thank you all for the prayers!
One year becomes two, two years becomes five, five becomes ten and before you know it, you've wasted your whole life on a problem you can't solve. That's one way to spend your life. -rwinger
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Appendectomies are no longer major surgery. Speak for yourself. Okay, let me rephrase that: The way appendectomies are performed has changed. They are much less invasive than they used to be. Going home much sooner is quite common. And my wife wanted me to deck some nurses.
If you are serious about saving your marriage, you can't get it all on this forum. You've got to listen to the Marriage Builders Radio show, every day. Install the app! Married to my radiant trophy wife, Prisca, 19 years. Father of 8. Attended Marriage Builders weekend in May 2010 If your wife is not on board with MB, some of my posts to other men might help you.
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karma, I hope your brother has a speedy recovery with no complications. Did you buy him some ice cream??? (or is that for tonsils??)
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Actually, no, I didn't buy him any ice cream. I think that is for tonsils. Hrmm....funny thing is, he doesn't really like ice cream. 
One year becomes two, two years becomes five, five becomes ten and before you know it, you've wasted your whole life on a problem you can't solve. That's one way to spend your life. -rwinger
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