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I saw this information today online and thought it was interesting. It gave the days when best to use surveillance with a suspected cheater:
1. The two days before or after a weekend.
2. The Thursday before and the Tuesday after a long holiday weekend.
3. February 12th or 13th, before Valentine's day. Also, lunch for the 14th.
4. The 3 days before Thanksgiving and the Friday after, especially if they 'have' to work Friday.
7. The two days before Christmas and New Year's Eve.
8. Either of their birthdays.
9. Business trips that they're taking 'alone.'
Sooly
"Stop yappin and make it happen."
"The will of God will never take you where the Grace of God will not protect you."
Me 47
DH 46
Together for 28 years.
Married 21 years.
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Interesting.......  Ya know, I caught H and OW together on a Thursday....  Not
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This all makes sense. Sadly, there always seems to be a spike of newbys arriving here right after holidays. Particularly Thanksgiving, Christmas and the one created by the greeting card people.
I finally extracted my head from the nether regions on Wayzilla's birthday and figured out what was going on. The trail of crumbs to follow were more like entire loaves of Italian bread. She had gotten pretty brazen. She had a private party that night with Gollum. I mean really. Who brings their toothbrush and spare panties to work on their birthday?
Two days later on Thanksgiving I confronted and had my D-Day.
So I get to claim both 4 and 8.
Last edited by chrisner; 07/16/10 02:56 PM.
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I found out on Christmas Day. It will never be the same....
BS - me 56
XWH - 57
12/25/06 - Dday - WH promised NC. Plan A in effect. Thought we were in recovery.
6-3-07 - Dday#2 Found out NC never took place and A never ended. Found MB NC promised again, but WH would not write NC letter.
9/07 - Dday #3. Still lying and sneaking around. Plan B implemented
WH wants nothing to do with me
Divorced as of 12/09 after 36 years
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