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Speaking of posters who come on and try to be more clever than the vets... what ever happened to DUDE?
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He came back as palerider something or other recently but then went away again. I think he and his fwxw are back together, which is neat.
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[I think you are playing with us.
I score your post on harshness a 70 out of 100.
I appoint myself the official harshness committee of one on THIS thread.  Dang, I missed all the fun! can I be the official idiot committee? 
"It is not the critic who counts; not the man who points out how the strong man stumbles, or where the doer of deeds could have done them better. The credit belongs to the man who is actually in the arena.." Theodore Roosevelt Exposure 101
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really? Dude got back with W? Is this true?
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really? Dude got back with W? Is this true? I don't know that to be true for certain but it could be predicted based on Dr Harley's research... When a BS stops trying to LEVERAGE the WS into changing his/her actions and starts following the MB PLANS A and B, reconciliation odds skyrocket since most affairs implode within two years of confrontation. Mark
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When a BS stops trying to LEVERAGE the WS into changing his/her actions and starts following the MB PLANS A and B, reconciliation odds skyrocket since most affairs implode within two years of confrontation.
Mark Dude's wife's affair was already over when he first posted here. He became a WS himself while posting here; he had a revenge affair. He then divorced his wife and two kids, "partied like a rock star" and then started dating his wife again. He felt much less unhappy about her affair once he had had his own. He all but recommend RA's to all and sundry. The last time he was here they had not remarried, and he claimed that the new dating arrangement was excellent. He didn't seem to think that his kids had suffered from the RA, divorce and reconciliation.
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WHAT HAPPENED TO "OUR HOUSE"?
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WHAT HAPPENED TO "OUR HOUSE"? What has that got to do with this thread?
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Our House....in the middle of our street
At least that's what I heard!
I kill myself sometimes (BP humor)
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Our House....in the middle of our street
At least that's what I heard!
I kill myself sometimes (BP humor) luri, you do know the name of the band that recorded that song, don't you?
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OMG...Madness! Here's a rant. Random people who take over the rant thread to discuss music 
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My rant is why can't a rant simply be just that, a rant for cryin' out loud, this is a rant thread. I don't understand why rants are challenged or questioned, again they are rants, they are an opportunity to vent, ask or make statements of whatever is causing us to want to rip our hair out.  To me a rant is individual, what gnaws at me may not be the same for someone else, so what.  WHAT HAPPENED TO "OUR HOUSE"? What has that got to do with this thread? Sugarcane, someone asked where Dude was and people replied. It's no secret that Dude was likely banned, is it a secret that OH is too? That's another rant of mine ....... secrecy and dishonesty. I've had enough of that to last me a lifetime.  okay, rants are good, I feel better. 
M'd 22 years
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AHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHH My rant for today is, WHY DO I MISS ALL THE FUN????? I had a fun day out with my RL friends and kiddos. Let the kiddos play on the computer and then I come on here and see the fun is all done. WAHHH
BW(Me)aka Scotty:37 DSx2: 10,12 DDAY2(PA)Nov27/09 Plan B Dec18/09 Personal R in works Scotty's THING Newly Betrayed click herePraying for walls and doors. Thanx MM “Surviving is important. Thriving is elegant.” ? Maya Angelou PROGRESS NOT PERFECTION THANK YOU
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Scotland, dear, it rained cats and dogs ALL DAY.
You must have been indoors!
Glad you had a good day though!
M'd 22 years
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All I can say is thanks. It must get frustrating to read the newbie WS posts and have to start at square one with their clueless and fog-filled dissembling and insane justifications and defensiveness. Just know that your help is more valuable than you can ever know. I take that back. You DO know, or you would not do it.
FWH, age 63. 24 years of narcissistic behavior, infidelity, and emotional abandonment of my BS, age 57, DancesWithGoats (DWG). D-day two years ago, leading to emotional breakdown. Been working MB program and toward spiritual transformation and personal growth since then, with some slow but real progress. DWG still with no trust, but with grief starting to subside a bit.
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I don't understand why rants are challenged or questioned, again they are rants, they are an opportunity to vent, ask or make statements of whatever is causing us to want to rip our hair out. But it's okay for you to challenge or question my response here? WHAT HAPPENED TO "OUR HOUSE"? What has that got to do with this thread? Sugarcane, someone asked where Dude was and people replied.
It's no secret that Dude was likely banned, is it a secret that OH is too? Vitt, you are missing the craftiness involved in the placing of that question in this thread. Someone here mentioned "stirring things up". That is being done quite a lot on this thread.
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But it's okay for you to challenge or question my response here? Sugarcane, I had to chuckle, cuz you were right. I did question your questioning of the post. I did, what I was ranting about!   ( and it could go on and on, back and forth, back and forth ) Vitt, you are missing the craftiness involved in the placing of that question in this thread.
Someone here mentioned "stirring things up". That is being done quite a lot on this thread. okay this one, I am missing the craftiness SC. I simply saw someone ask about a poster who used to post quite a bit, and now isn't. Posters ask about other posters, a lot. I've done it. We wonder where they are, are they okay ..... Greenmile, I have many thanks too. I thank MB for rescuing my M from an A, and I thank many of the posters here for guiding me and supporting me through personal R. Snails pace maybe, but the turtle won the race! 
M'd 22 years
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Sugarcane, I had to chuckle, cuz you were right. I did question your questioning of the post. I did, what I was ranting about! ( and it could go on and on, back and forth, back and forth )  I was hoping you would pick up on that!
"It is not the critic who counts; not the man who points out how the strong man stumbles, or where the doer of deeds could have done them better. The credit belongs to the man who is actually in the arena.." Theodore Roosevelt Exposure 101
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Rant/Vent:
I hate waywards. There are absolutely no words in the English language to describe their vile, hateful, destructive abuse. The selfishness, the ugliness, it is unreal. It is horrible, ugly and evil.
There is little worse than destroying a family. Than emotionally raping the ones you purport to love.
I hate it.
I hate it.
I hate it.
Those of you that have been here for years - I don't see how you do it, coming here every day where there is so much pain, despair and loss. Where you see, every day - the ugliness one person can do to another. It's too much.
My soul aches for the pain I see here.
Waywards suck
Me & DH: 28 Married 8/20/05 1DD, 9 mo. Just Lookin' and Learnin' HIYA!
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My rant would be.... The posters who get banned...then come back and post under other names...like they won't be caught. AND.....posters who have been banned....but will email members and post by "proxy"...which has happened in the past.  AND....posters who have been banned...but will email members with vile, hateful stuff. Anyone that has been banned and continues to attempt contact with the board...well...one word... ISSUES!  ALSO....active members that continue to post under aliases. That tells me that they are dishonest...and there should be a list of those people that are attempting deceptive practices.  Give us a list Moderators!  committed
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