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Sometimes it not meant to be Red. I honestly don't know what to say except I feel for you.

Stay strong and hopefully one of the vets can offer some words to help you.


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Originally Posted By: Bigfatredhead
WW is pregnant...


BR

Don't have any words of wisdom here except I've been reading along and I'm sorry.

Hard position to be in so far away from home.

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Originally Posted By: Bigfatredhead
WW is pregnant...
faint Oh, br, I am so sorry.


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Is it wrong that one of my feelings is relief. I no longer have to fight and it explains a lot of her behavior.

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BFR, I am so sorry for you. My goodness, you have more to bear than one should. I'm fairly sure not one person here will or would judge your feelings of relief. My God man, at some point you have to fold. Vets, am I wrong here? Doesn't this man just deserve a life without this crap and pieces of crap now? Good God...

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Originally Posted By: Bigfatredhead
Is it wrong that one of my feelings is relief. I no longer have to fight and it explains a lot of her behavior.
No, it's not wrong. I am so disgusted about her on your behalf. Good Lord. She has a long road ahead of her, regretting this at her leisure.

Is there no way you can get legal help to get your kids back to your parents'?


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Thank you, maritalbliss. He needs you!

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Originally Posted By: Surfer88
Thank you, maritalbliss. He needs you!
I could just weep for br right now. frown


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Prayers for BR right now. Thanks, Mbliss. I think he will need those with credibility for support...like you. BR, stay here.

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Thank you all. So kind. Unfortunately a trusted lawyer said there is nothing I can do to keep them at my parents unless they are in danger. Fortunately out of the 21 days or so since she has moved out my kids have been at my parents 15.

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Originally Posted By: Surfer88
BFR, I am so sorry for you. My goodness, you have more to bear than one should. I'm fairly sure not one person here will or would judge your feelings of relief. My God man, at some point you have to fold. Vets, am I wrong here? Doesn't this man just deserve a life without this crap and pieces of crap now? Good God...

Thank goodness God is Good. His faithfulness has kept my spirits high throughout this whole mess.
Psalm 66:12 NASB

You made men ride over our heads;
We went through fire and through water,
Yet You brought us out into a place of abundance.

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