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Financial planners. Custody coaches. Marriage counselors. Lawyers. Retainer fees. Financial affidavits. QDRO. Separate QDRO lawyer.
Real estate agents. Constantly cleaning the house for prospective buyers. Painting.
Health insurance cost now. Health insurance cost without spouse. Health insurance cost without spouse and kids.
Mandatory parenting class for single parents...
BH(Me)=40
WXW=38
ILYBNILWY: 8/09
DDAY: 8/31/09
Two boys: 8,7
Divorced 3/23/2011
Don't let your eyes refuse to see. Don't let your ears refuse to hear. Or you ain't never gonna shake this sense of sadness. --Ray Lamontagne
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And it will not solve all your problems. So many folks will tell you, "just divorce him/her and move on!" as if that's all it takes.
I understand that sometimes a D is necessary, but be prepared for the legal, financial and emotional damage to drag on for *years*.
Sure hope it was worth it to all those WS out there.
Me, BW
WH cheated in corporate workplace for many years. He moved out and filed in summer 2008.
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I totally agree as I'm deep in the Discovery Process this week.
Hate Divorce. Hate getting the one I don't want.
Hate it all.
"Your future isn't sealed. Nothing bad is going to happen. You just put everything in God's hands and in the meanwhile, do all you can do as a woman to protect yourself and your finances and family. That's what your job is to do now and let God deal with the wayward. Trust me...you do not have to lift a finger. HE will deal with the wayward."
Quotable words from peachyisback
“Sometimes you don’t get where you want to go, but you get much further than you were before.” Tiffany on Top Chef
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