I read (with interest) the replies to Against the Winds very sad post. They honestly made me cry. Not a mean word in them!<P>Whew!!!<P>This is what we are about around here... not judging, not pointing the finger, not lashing out with hate-filled words... but dealing with compassion toward every one of us - betrayed and betrayer alike.<P>We are also not about condoning poor choices. Nobody said, "atta girl, go get what you want, what makes you feel good"... no, I think we came through with flying colors! <P>Makes me feel a bit safer about saying how I feel... because things had been a bit hairy there for awhile... <P>It just made me feel good about life, like there's a chance for all of us to find some happiness - no matter WHAT happens...<P>I say all that without an ounce of alcohol, and with a smile on my face <P>------------------<BR>~Sheryl<P>Marriage: the most important contract you'll ever enter into, and the most sacred.<P><BR>

I agree, Sheryl. I've been a little worried lately too.<P>Glad to see we're all where we're supposed to be.<P>Good to hear from you, BTW. <P>Lori

Sheryl, you said it all. This has helped me tremendously, and that is what we are here for. Not to judge..to offer help and support. All you guys are like REAL friends to me..even if I may not want to hear the truth at times. It is really so odd to feel so connected to faceless people, but I have gotten so much in the long time I have been here.<BR><BR>God bless you all....

sheryl--i agree with the post and replies and am glad you are still here and checking in....much peace and love...trying hard<BR>