Next time, hang up and block the number immediately. But I guess you already knew that

**edit**

It's one thing that WW got by with a new number.

But another thing to continue to break NC by allowing phone call to go past the point of recognition that it was WW. That is the point to not even say that he's in NC, nothing, zip, nada. The only thing WW is to hear from him is the click when he hangs up.

So WW breaks NC.

What does BH do?

He breaks NC further by sending a text.

Then what does BH doe next?

Breaks NC by reading TM from WW instead of just deleting it.

**edit**

Now, TR, quit being so rough on Wes. This was a hiccup. We've seen hundreds of BS's do the same thing. This is a 2x4 situation, but not a telephone pole.

Wes, quit it. You know the drill.

Stop dropping the log cabins on top of me

Wes,

You did fine. Ignore the 2x4s. She snuck a punch in on you.

You're doing great.

Stay strong and quiet, my friend.

Hey just a quick update guys,

8 months almost from discovery of my WW affair, her leaving for OM and becoming pregnant.

I have been doing real well, my boys are settled into a nice routine and I have learnt to breathe again. Work is going well and I am back working hard and am really focused.
Since my last post it has been a month of rediscovery. I am in a very happy place and have been able to look at my past relationship from the distance without feelings of hurt, anger and betrayal setting in.

I now am disappointed with the outcome from the mess my WW created but am very excited about the future. When all is said and done, I didn't create this mess and I won't be dragged down into the craziness. I have discovered self worth and pride again and have met so many new wonderful friends in the process.

So where am I up to??

I don't speak to my WW apart from a odd occasion when something comes up about the boys. I have a lot of new friends, taken up a new sport, rekindled my love of some old hobbies and now have put my house on the market to sell. This will be the final financial tie to cut with my WW.

I have read a lot of books on affairs and relationships and have set new boundaries about the future and what I will and wont accept in life. I hope those boundaries will allow me to never be treated this way again.

I never thought I would say this but I do want to divorce, perhaps I didn't go to Plan B quick enough but I believe my love bank for her is empty. I really did give it my all.

A new chapter starts, the boys have a strong focused father and life is good. Thank you for all the support i recieved from everybody on these forums, it helped me through some very dark days.

Wesley

Good for you, sir.

Strength and perseverance.

WesH,

Congratulations, you have come to where you want to be. It sounds as if you have learned alot, and now realize you cannot control others decisions.

Best of all I am sure you boys enjoy the new you. Keep us updated.

God Bless,

JL