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2 Steps; delete her number, have you and fww's number changed. Voila, she can't call.


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Originally Posted by MikeStillSmiling
Thats what my wife said. I argue that if I do that and she texts or calls, thatd be worse, I wont reconize her number and Id pick up the call. If shes in the cell, I see her name and have the option of ignoring. Without having her saved in the directory, I have no option.

Know what happened?, and Im pretty dumb. I mentioned she texted me about 2 weeks ago about day care and where my wife is working in Sept so she would enroll her kid elsewhere and I kept it to show my wife. I clicked on that conversation and, well, it all happened so fast. Shoulda deleted that convo.

If this is interesting to anyone, let me know.

Slow news night.

Its interesting because we wonder how you are.

I understand the address book having her number, for the reasons explained, but maybe you can Change her name to characters so noticeable that you wont accidently access them.

If you need to save the text convos, somehow get them off your phone.

Glad you FWW was there in all this, hope things are getting better.

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In the grand scale of things, TEXT-GATE is minor.

I am NOT changing my cell phone number again. My wife went out and changed hers, mine and our daughter's cell numbers just after dday. I understand SHE needed her number changed, but I lost a number I had for over 15 years. Made no sense for me to get a new number.

It was the text converation that was left undeleted that did it.

Mea culpa.

I just dont want to speak to her because all we'll do is review the affair to no end. I put more than half the blame on this on her husband for many reasons, but I am not going to sit and tell her that. Its not fair and possibly not exactly true.

She's in a bad place. I reconize that. She cant even unload on her parents because they not mentally all-together themselves. She told me this last time we spoke.

She's alone just like she was before dday. Sucks.

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