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Crazy like a fox. I see her as crafty, manipulative and sneaky. ITA. And she thinks that will work here. 
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What a shame.
This is not the place for her in her state of mind.
He's lost this as a resource and place of respite.
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Crazy like a fox. I see her as crafty, manipulative and sneaky. ITA. And she thinks that will work here. I hope he has the stuff to "john wayne it... MB style! the quiet man
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Hello...I did not tell...she figured it out.
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Me BW (37)
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A man who abandons his wife and children because of his infidelity is no price. I can do better then that, I deserve better then that.
The difficulties and struggles of today are but the price we must pay for the accomplishments and victories of tomorrow
Men must be honest with themselves before they can be honest with others. A man who is not honest with himself presents a hopeless case
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Hello...I did not tell...she figured it out. How did she do that? Please give us an update. CV
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lol, thought the same thing... Seems like her style, not his...
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Hello...I did not tell...she figured it out. Get tested for STDs. Insist she get tested as well. Sharing microbes is risky. Ask any RN. 
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It's not him pep. She must have his password now. A bet the moderators could verify.
Me -BS 40
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02/20/12 done beating my head on that wall.
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Whether it's her or him, here is what both of you guys need to watch, and read: Step 1: http://www.marriagebuilders.com/graphic/mbi1001_infidelity0.htmlStep 2: http://www.marriagebuilders.com/mb2.cfm?recno=4&sublink=33That is a lot of work and a lot of reading. I suggest you both call a truce about bickering over what happened and get to work. It is going to take work here, folks. It always does. 
If you are serious about saving your marriage, you can't get it all on this forum. You've got to listen to the Marriage Builders Radio show, every day. Install the app! Married to my radiant trophy wife, Prisca, 19 years. Father of 8. Attended Marriage Builders weekend in May 2010 If your wife is not on board with MB, some of my posts to other men might help you.
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I know. That's why I wrote it !
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Crazy like a fox. I see her as crafty, manipulative and sneaky. ITA. And she thinks that will work here. Agree. And she thinks her drama will work here because it works at home. He has rewarded her for this crazy, manipulative behavior for years. This how she controls him. And it won't change until he mans up and starts taking care of his family. I pity his poor defenseless children; they have no one. No one. A mother who has lost her mind and a father who sits by and won't lift a finger to protect them from her abusive psychodrama.
"It is not the critic who counts; not the man who points out how the strong man stumbles, or where the doer of deeds could have done them better. The credit belongs to the man who is actually in the arena.." Theodore Roosevelt Exposure 101
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Hello...I did not tell...she figured it out. Get tested for STDs. Insist she get tested as well. Sharing microbes is risky. Ask any RN. Don't remind me of Micro... *shudder*
"An expert is a person who has made all the mistakes that can be made in a very narrow field." - Niels Bohr
"Smart people believe weird things because they are skilled at defending beliefs they arrived at for non-smart reasons." - Michael Shermer
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I really want to send her the "To the Unfaithful Lurkers - A Gift" letter I just saw on here. It says everything - a wonderful slap in the face wake-up letter to the WS. NOOOOOOOOOOOO !   Did you even READ the carrot/stick linked thread?  He had already sent her. She was registered on 6 October. Did you both read together Mr. A? What is the story behind your wife knowing about this site?
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Hello...I did not tell...she figured it out. She/You figured what out?
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All great advice Northwoods. I'm starting to lean... I cannot take it anymore and I am getting Pissed. Funny last night as I prayed for us with her in bed, she thanked me for being so patient with her. It is like a roller coaster ride.
BTW she didn't like my FB status Proverbs 26:11 "As a dog returns to his vomit, so a fool repeats his folly" She probably thinks it about her, but really its about me. Her comment "whatever." She is one lovin' cake-eater. I cannot imagine the reality that is coming her way now that she is back to leeks and carrots.
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She was registered on 6 October. Screen name? EDIT: Nevermind, I see it-- "almostdied" She complained he exposed to 516 facebook friends. Wow, he was pretty thorough on that! Good job, Mr A!
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He had already sent her. She was registered on 6 October. Did you both read together Mr. A? What is the story behind your wife knowing about this site? Her post says she registered on the 19th. Where do you see the 6th?
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She complained he exposed to 516 facebook friends. Wow, he was pretty thorough on that! Good job, Mr A! MrsA, I hope you will apologize to your husband for putting him into a desperate situation where he felt he had to do that. And as I said earlier, I also hope that the two of you will call a truce on that minor subject and get busy learning what it will take to put your marriage back together. "For godly sorrow worketh repentance unto salvation, a repentance which bringeth no regret: but the sorrow of the world worketh death." (2 Corinthians 7:10) Don't wallow in sorrow. Do the work that is required by repentance. And don't fight. "But if you bite and devour one another, watch out that you are not consumed by one another." Call a truce. I hope the reason that we are not hearing from you is that both of you are sitting down watching videos and reading articles on this site, and maybe even making preparations to call Dr. Harley or one of the counselors on his staff. I hope that you are not quiet here because you are fighting there. Fighting is lethal to marriages.
If you are serious about saving your marriage, you can't get it all on this forum. You've got to listen to the Marriage Builders Radio show, every day. Install the app! Married to my radiant trophy wife, Prisca, 19 years. Father of 8. Attended Marriage Builders weekend in May 2010 If your wife is not on board with MB, some of my posts to other men might help you.
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He had already sent her. She was registered on 6 October. Did you both read together Mr. A? What is the story behind your wife knowing about this site? Her post says she registered on the 19th. Where do you see the 6th? I apologize I thought it was 6 October I saw this morning. I am confused - was there another WW who was 6 October and just started posting?
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