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Ok. I will tighten it up more. I have been doing the best
I can with the children. They are doing much better than before. I am taking good care of myself. Gained back the weight I lost in the first month and changed a few things.
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Ok. I have been trying to get in contact with Ws HR department. Finally they called back. They said she has been transfered to different department. It's a totally different building and its also about 45 mins from where she was. Got her away from him at the work place. So now from what I understand is that she has no vehicle to get around in. Only her moms which her mom needs so its not like she can just take it whenever she likes. She makes no where near enough to be able to afford her own place and all the utilities. She is getting tired of living with her mom and sister. Is there anything else I can do?
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Is there anything else I can do? Yep, enjoy the weekend with the kids, keep enjoying time with your family and friends, and build a life that no longer includes WW. If she decides to wake up from the fog, well, she has the conditions mapped out in PBL on what SHE needs to do. And if not, you are well taken care of in Plan B. As for poor little WW not having enough money for rent or a car of her own... gee, the reality of infidelity sucks don't it 
Me (BW): 35
Married 1999 with no kids, DDay July 2011, OC born September 2012, Divorce final November 2012.
WXH (Gollum) is corrupted by his A, and now forever bound to it.
Plan B has set me free.
"Mourn the man he was. Know the man he is."
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That sounds good to me. I'm loving that I know she is having such a difficult time. I do love her but as they say she made her bed and now she gets to lay in it. Of all the dumb and hurtful remarks she has made I am feeling pretty good right now. Welcome to reality.
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She is getting tired of living with her mom and sister.  Of all the dumb and hurtful remarks she has made I am feeling pretty good right now. Umm Donie, you haven't been talking with WW have you? I just re-read post and am unsure if you are just inferring or have heard it from her directly.
Me (BW): 35
Married 1999 with no kids, DDay July 2011, OC born September 2012, Divorce final November 2012.
WXH (Gollum) is corrupted by his A, and now forever bound to it.
Plan B has set me free.
"Mourn the man he was. Know the man he is."
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No no. I haven't had any contact with her. The remarks was before plan b. The stuff about her getting tired if living with her mom was from my old land lord. The land lord called me a few days ago asking me how I would feel about her renting our old house to my W. The land lord pretty much had her mind made up that she wasn't going to though. Then she started telling me about her getting tired of living with her mom. I cut her short cause I don't really care to much. She's doing what she is doing now she can deal with the consequences. She is getting tired of living with her mom and sister. Of all the dumb and hurtful remarks she has made I am feeling pretty good right now. Umm Donie, you haven't been talking with WW have you? I just re-read post and am unsure if you are just inferring or have heard it from her directly.
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