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Wow, ascending. Great job! That soldier has nothing on you, bud. What a fighter!
(Note to self: never mess with a hillbilly . . .)
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WW says I am not thinking clearly and have driven her away with all of this.
Says she spent the whole night on the phone with OM trying to keep him from coming up here and killing me.
I told her that OM is letting go of her.
She said she will never come back to me.
OM says he will try to sue me for harassment for the facebook exposure.
WW says she will get a restraining order put on me and take our son to her mothers (still in the same town we live in here in TN).
Anything unusual I need to be concerned about here?
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That's just wayward speak for "back off, you're ruining my affair!" Keep exposing and get that recording to IG.
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Nope...Damn the torpedoes, full speed ahead. Oh, and beg him to sue you, then you'll have all your evidence on public record. It will damn him with the IG and crucify any case your WW may be trying to build if it comes to that (which I think it won't).
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WW says I am not thinking clearly and have driven her away with all of this.
Says she spent the whole night on the phone with OM trying to keep him from coming up here and killing me.
I told her that OM is letting go of her.
She said she will never come back to me.
OM says he will try to sue me for harassment for the facebook exposure.
WW says she will get a restraining order put on me and take our son to her mothers (still in the same town we live in here in TN).
Anything unusual I need to be concerned about here? Good job! 
"It is not the critic who counts; not the man who points out how the strong man stumbles, or where the doer of deeds could have done them better. The credit belongs to the man who is actually in the arena.." Theodore Roosevelt Exposure 101
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WW says she will get a restraining order put on me and take our son to her mothers (still in the same town we live in here in TN). Send a copy of the recording to WW's Mother at the same time you send it to the IG. Ask WW's Mother for support in protecting WW and DS from this unstable OM as you are concerned for everyone's safety. Good job Ascending.
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When I exposed, my W said I better 'watch my back' for OM to come after me...and OM threatened to sue me for getting him fired from the jobsite.
Marital/Meloday both encouraged me to calm the hell down....and they were correct.
The only thing that happened was OM's mommy called me to leave her little boy alone, this wasn't his fault, blah, blah, blah.
Keep up the good work (it doesn't always 'feel' it at the time, but it is working!)
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So POSOM is going to sue you for speaking the truth ??
I can see it now "yes your honor i was sleeping with his wife against orders"
Keep up the good work ascending
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OK had a nice 28 minute recorded conversation with Angelo.
Its all nicely recorded. Here are some choice quotes.
"I want you to tell the IG that you can�t keep your wife. And you got no proof that I slept with her. All its gonna be is pain. Your pushing your wife away."
"Your wife, I just got off the phone with her, right before you called. Your wife knows that I will destroy your [censored] punk [censored]."
"Your such a big man on the phone, that�s why your wife wants other guys."
"Actually call your wife on 3 way so we all can talk."
"You didn�t win [censored]. When that ball drops, and your wife is still [censored] other dudes, that�s going to be your problem."
"How are you raising your son there?"
"When the IG talks to me, I'm sayin we�re just friends."
"I�m telling you, its gonna be lovely, when we�re together."
Finally he asks if I'm alone. I say I'm not. He hangs up the phone. I absolutley LOVE it Ascending! Is there anywhere on there where he talks about actually having sex with her?
Standing in His PresenceFBS (me) (48) FWW (41) Married April 1993... 4 kids (19(B), 17(G), 14(B), 4(B)) Blessed by God more than I deserve "If Jesus is your co-pilot...you need to change seats!"Link: The Roles of Husbands and Wives
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OK, right now its on a little 35$ Olympus digital recorder. Should I just send that to the IG? Should I make a digital recording of this recording and send/email that? Copy it on your computer and email it to the IG. Call him before you do and let him hear it on the phone.
Standing in His PresenceFBS (me) (48) FWW (41) Married April 1993... 4 kids (19(B), 17(G), 14(B), 4(B)) Blessed by God more than I deserve "If Jesus is your co-pilot...you need to change seats!"Link: The Roles of Husbands and Wives
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At the very least he has charges of conduct unbecoming. The admittance would definitely solidify the case.
Me: BH 36 Her: WW 34 Kids: D 14, S 12, S 9 DDay 1-6/2009 DDay 2-9/2011 DDay 3-11/2011 Filed for D 10/2011-Papers Served 11/2011 Divorce final May 24, 2012 My Story
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Wow, ascending. Great job! That soldier has nothing on you, bud. What a fighter!
(Note to self: never mess with a hillbilly . . .) He is no soldier....and I want him OUT of my Army. He has no honor. Edited: I was just thinking...if I was his first sergeant, do you have any idea how much pain I would rain down on this poor excuse of a man. Soldiering isnt just being able to shoot and hit your target. It is everything. Honor. Character. Integrity. This idiot doesnt live up to the 7 Army values...he doesnt belong in MY Army! The 7 Army Values:
Loyalty
Duty
Respect
Selfless Service
Honor
Integrity
Personal Courage
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Standing in His PresenceFBS (me) (48) FWW (41) Married April 1993... 4 kids (19(B), 17(G), 14(B), 4(B)) Blessed by God more than I deserve "If Jesus is your co-pilot...you need to change seats!"Link: The Roles of Husbands and Wives
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At the very least he has charges of conduct unbecoming. The admittance would definitely solidify the case. VERY true GJM. One note ascending...do NOT release that recording to ANYONE until after you contact the IG. Do not send it to POSOM's mother, your wife's family... no one! Keep your powder dry right now. We will let you know when it is time to release that! While you are exposijng all at once, you are not letting out all of your info (except to the IG) all at once. You want the info to slowly come out. After the 4th to 5th iteration of information coming out, your WW and everyone else will think you still have a lot more info than you do! If you release everything at once, then they will say "well, thats all there is..." and then they will work to mitigate the damage and then hide things. But if they think you still have more...and they keep getting hit with more...well, eventually they will be looking over their shoulder every two seconds...paranoid. And that isnt a great environment for an affair! Let us know once you have talked to the IG.
Standing in His PresenceFBS (me) (48) FWW (41) Married April 1993... 4 kids (19(B), 17(G), 14(B), 4(B)) Blessed by God more than I deserve "If Jesus is your co-pilot...you need to change seats!"Link: The Roles of Husbands and Wives
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Wow, ascending. Great job! That soldier has nothing on you, bud. What a fighter!
(Note to self: never mess with a hillbilly . . .) He is no soldier....and I want him OUT of my Army. He has no honor. Edited: I was just thinking...if I was his first sergeant, do you have any idea how much pain I would rain down on this poor excuse of a man. Soldiering isnt just being able to shoot and hit your target. It is everything. Honor. Character. Integrity. This idiot doesnt live up to the 7 Army values...he doesnt belong in MY Army! The 7 Army Values:
Loyalty
Duty
Respect
Selfless Service
Honor
Integrity
Personal Courage Hey, ascending...next time you can email him or message him, send him these 7 Army values and ask him when he is going to start living up to them.
Standing in His PresenceFBS (me) (48) FWW (41) Married April 1993... 4 kids (19(B), 17(G), 14(B), 4(B)) Blessed by God more than I deserve "If Jesus is your co-pilot...you need to change seats!"Link: The Roles of Husbands and Wives
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Wow, ascending. Great job! That soldier has nothing on you, bud. What a fighter!
(Note to self: never mess with a hillbilly . . .) He is no soldier....and I want him OUT of my Army. He has no honor. Yeah, admittedly, I used the term loosely -- for illustrative purposes only. I completely understand your sentiment. He's soiling the uniform. Gotta admire acending's resolve in going head-to-head with a self-proclaimed "trained killa." Yesterday, I was scrambling to sign in to provide military exposure advice, but your checklist summed it up nicely. Kudos to ascending for following your lead. I believe he's thrown quite a wrench into his wife's little fantasy playland. It's so refeshing to see a BS take the battle to the waywards like this!
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Something to consider...
his state might be a two party state for recording telephone calls (what state are we talking about here and I'll look it up)
It may be wise to transcribe the telephone call as if he remembered it word for word and took really good notes. If he speaks to the IG he can mention VERBALLY that he made the transcription from a recording but don't give anyone access to such recording right now.
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"agree to disagree" = Used when one wants to reject the objective reality of the situation and hopefully replace it with their own.
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Me: BH 36 Her: WW 34 Kids: D 14, S 12, S 9 DDay 1-6/2009 DDay 2-9/2011 DDay 3-11/2011 Filed for D 10/2011-Papers Served 11/2011 Divorce final May 24, 2012 My Story
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Something to consider...
his state might be a two party state for recording telephone calls (what state are we talking about here and I'll look it up)
It may be wise to transcribe the telephone call as if he remembered it word for word and took really good notes. If he speaks to the IG he can mention VERBALLY that he made the transcription from a recording but don't give anyone access to such recording right now.
Mr. W Mr. W is our resident lawyer...so listen to him.. As a matter of fact, I mentioned this earlier when we discussed him taping the conversation. I advised him to make SURE that the state he is in allows for one party recording. I know he said he is from TN...so I dont know if they allow one party recording. If they do...no issues! If they dont, then do what Mr. W said.
Standing in His PresenceFBS (me) (48) FWW (41) Married April 1993... 4 kids (19(B), 17(G), 14(B), 4(B)) Blessed by God more than I deserve "If Jesus is your co-pilot...you need to change seats!"Link: The Roles of Husbands and Wives
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