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IS,
Wow......every WS needs to read this. I am a FWW and it sure made me feel horrible reading it because it's true. I wish I had seen this before I had an affair. Of course, that probably wouldn't have mattered because it was all about me!
Thank you, Pepperband. Bump your post!
CT
Me: WW41
Hubby: BH40...My Amazing forgiving man (CharpyTest)
DD: 8 DS: 8 DD: 6
EA/PA: 3 years
May 25, 2011 (Formal NC letter sent)
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OMG - I just read that post and couldn't stop laughing but was horrified at the same time- its almost like a mirror of my life the last few months with WH- ILYBNILWY, to every answer being "I dont know" ( WH just had an I dont know session about his feelings last night with me), saying we are just not compatible,threatening to leave but actually never leaving -
Hmm.. maybe I should print this out and give to WH- though like comedytradgey said it prob wont matter cause its all about him-
ME(33)WH(36)
S(3)
ILYBNILWY-9/30/11
DD EA-11/20/11
Discovered NC Broken-12/4/11
NC-12/6/11
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i just printed it out and emailed it to H with no high hopes but i just had to anyway!
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IS,
That was an awesome post. If only it was something a wayward would be willing to accept. I'm sure if one who is currently wayward were to read, they think it to be nothing but a bunch of bull.
BS - Me 36
WS - wife 34
Married 10 yrs
DDay - Early November 2010
WS filed Divorce 11/9/10
Divorce final 12/22/11
1 Corinthians 13:7: (LOVE) Beareth all things, believeth all things, HOPETH all things, endureth all things.
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