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MelodyLane,
I will look around a little just to confirm but I still believe she is telling me the truth. She has known from the very beginning how I feel about cheating. I don't want to sound like I'm not taking your opinion seriously but she really isn't the type to do that.
I do agree that there are several signs that may point that way and I am very confused by the lack of desire to fix the issues, but I still trust her and I trust what she tells me until the minute I find out otherwise. I really don't know what to say right now. I feel like everyone thinks the affair is the root of all this and I do not think that. I know you all have more experience with these things than I do but I still know my wife in certain aspects better than anyone. I hate to point out that we were RIGHT. Are you ready to start working on your marriage now? Or are you going to continue to take your own counsel?
"It is not the critic who counts; not the man who points out how the strong man stumbles, or where the doer of deeds could have done them better. The credit belongs to the man who is actually in the arena.." Theodore Roosevelt Exposure 101
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How was it dealt with? Tell us exactly what happened and what you/her did about it. What was the timeline? PA/EA? Did you verify? How?
^You cannot just move on to other things without dealing with this properly.
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